School holiday

Last Saturday start for 2 weeks school holiday so my son will be whole day at home with me and his sisters.

Today he weak up as usual at about 8 am together with his mei mei. Haiz.. make me headache cause I need to do house chore but he want me to accompany him to play block or toys with him.

Usually b4 school holiday he will gone to school at 8.15 am then when I back home I still can do some house chore like hang the laundry while the girls stand near the gate watch at me, but now my son at home I cant do other thing but just stay with him.

This morning 1+2dad weak up about 7.45 am so my son and the girls too. 1+2dad told me that my son wants him to stay with him and dun want him to go work wor.

I think he miss his daddy so much. Every Sunday my son very happy to see his daddy sleep next to him when he weak up. So as on Monday he hope his daddy also stay with him like on Sunday.

My son at home I really cant do anything so I had to send him to school. If just my girls they can play themselves I just have to make sure they play safe and no need to accompany them.

I always tell ppl it easy to take care 2 girls rather then only my son. My son very active and he wont listen what I ask him to do but my girls will. I must look after him cause if not you wont know what he will do like maybe he will climb very high or he will mess up the house. You need to keep all the things and sometime need to clean up the house too (he will pour the water on the floor and play with it).

My girls, they just stare on you see what you doing if you give them some snack they will sit or walk with the cup of snack but they wont disturb you doing things. Sometime they will help you to pick up something too..hehe. B4 I got baby, I oledi tell 1+2dad I like girls very much but I have to give birth a son first b4 got daughter, cause in my mine kor kor can protect mei mei mar.

Luckily I got son first cause oledi manja from the beginning so continue manja him lor. If I got daughter first maybe I will choose love lor..hehe..I told ppl I wont choose love but now I said I will :P

Tell you all one things. Carol very stick to 1+2dad ler cause sometime 1+2dad walk away from her when he play with her she will cry ler. Carrie did the same thing like Carol to me, so sometime I had to bring her along to watch me bath.

Yesterday we on the way home from my dad house, Carol want 1+2dad hold her hand while 1+2dad was driving ler (she sit beside 1+2dad and luckily our car is auto). I laugh at 1+2dad said she is your girl friend till cant let you go lor.

This Saturday we will bring the kids to Port Dickson for 1 day trip (as my son school holiday trip). Hope they will like the sand beach and some sun bath too.

Where they cute ???

This is few photos I took that day they play outside the front door. Carrie knows how to wear the slipper but we not yet buy any slipper for her cause very hard to find the size to fit her foot, so she wear our adult or her kor kor slipper.




Carrie tries to fix into her kor kor slipper.




Carrie looks so happy when she done her job.

While they play at front door, I go and clean the floor. Carol saw me sweep the floor she also go take another bloom to help me. Wahahaha..so funny she takes a big bloom with one hand and the other hand with a piece of paper.




Carol : Why mommy can sweep the floor very easy and I cant wan better use hand to pick up..hehe..I’m so cleaver.

This other few photos I took when back from shopping cause they look so pretty when wearing the skirt. I seldom give them wear skirt cause very mah fan and scare they get cold, sometime air-cont in shopping centre very cold.




We so cute ler !!!




Carrie with her sweet sweet smile.




Carrie : You see!!! I can close 1 eye !!!




This is another same sleeping pose, they like mirror hor.

Toddler choose love

Yesterday afternoon after all of them weak up from nap and play in the room, suddenly my son told me this.

Toddler : “ mommy, I sayang lili (Carrie nick name) I dunwan rou rou (Carol nice name).”
1+2mom *smile* : “har..you dunwan rou rou then mommy give uncle lor.”

Toddler *shake his head* : “no..mommy sayang rou rou, rou rou give mommy.”
1+2mom : “you said dunwan rou rou then mommy call uncle come and
take rou rou lor.”

Toddler : “rou rou give mommy, dunwan give uncle.”
1+2mom : “ok, ok.”

Children also know how to choose love, but I think maybe got fate between two of them. I realize very early that toddler like Carrie more then Carol cause sometime he got food he will share with Carrie first then I ask him to give some to Carol if not he wont do that.

Another time, I let Carrie sit on toddler stomach play with toddler then we play it again at room b4 nap. I let Carol sit first, after play a while he ask me to put Carrie on his stomach said want to play with Carrie. Haiz… I know he like Carrie very much cause just now we play like that at down stair he didn’t ask for Carol to play. Carol very charm. Never mind I will teach kor kor to love you too. You still got mei mei, mommy and daddy sayang you mar.

Some of my kid photos

This is Carol.




This is Carrie.




Are we look so alike ???Can you guess who is who ???




Carrie : I just weak up, can you see my beautiful hair ???




Girls : Poor kor kor just can ‘swim’ inside the bucket, we can share in the bathtub..hehe.




This is my girls another same sleeping pose :)

If I could be

I though I wont get this assignment but I found out from Msau blog, Poor me need to think what if I could be when I got lazy bug. Nolar, thankz Msau I no need scratch head what to blog liao.

What follows is a list of different occupations.
The reader must select at least five of them.
The reader may add more if they like to the list before they pass it on (after the reader select five of the items as it was passed to the reader).
Of the five selected, the reader is to finish each phrase with what he would do as a member of that profession. Then pass it on to three other bloggers.


Here’s that list: (My additions are in bold) :

If [Reader] could be a scientist // If [Reader] could be a farmer
If [Reader] could be a musician // If [Reader] could be a doctor
If [Reader] could be a painter // If [Reader] could be a gardener
If [Reader] could be a missionary // If [Reader] could be a chef
If [Reader] could be an architect // If [Reader] could be a linguist
If [Reader] could be a psychologist // If [Reader] could be a librarian
If [Reader] could be an athlete // If [Reader] could be a lawyer
If [Reader] could be an innkeeper // If [Reader] could be a professor
If [Reader] could be a writer // If [Reader] could be a backup dancer
If [Reader] could be a llama-rider // If [Reader] could be a bonnie pirate
If [Reader] could be a midget stripper // If [Reader] could be a proctologist
If [Reader] could be a TV-Chat Show host // If [Reader] could be a pariah
If [Reader] could be an actor // If [Reader] could be a judge
If [Reader] could be a Jedi // If [Reader] could be a mob boss
If [Reader] could be a backup singer // If [Reader] could be a CEO
If [Reader] could be a movie reviewer // If [Reader] could be a monkey’s uncle
If [Reader] could be a bible archaeologist //If [Reader] could be a househusband
If [Reader] could be a lifeguard //If [Reader] could be a comic artist
If [Reader] could be a stockbroker//If [Reader] could be a travel writer
If [Reader] could be a food reviewer //If [Reader] could be a politician
If [Reader] could be a male underwear model //If [Reader] could be a fashion designer
If [Reader] could be an game designer // If [Reader] could be a dog-trainer

If I could be a scientist, I will make something that human can live under the sea like fish can breathe in the water.

If I could be a farmer, I want to plant something taste like meat so all the vagetarian can taest the meat without eat any meat.

If I could be a doctor, I want to create some medicine that can let guys eat to reduce his sexual thinking when he want sex but dun have women there. This can get less women been rape.

If I could be a CEO, I want to try how buzy are they and find out why got so many entertainments to entertain.

If I could be a fashion designer, I want to make some cloth for baby that it will follow the weather or room temperature to adjust the cloth for cool down or worm up the body. Cause sometime dunno when baby too cool or too hot.

Errr.. I duuno who to inflict so no one will kena.

Daily routine without maid

Our home without maid oledi 1 month liao, it quite busy and tired but feel happy cause the kids get more attention by 1+2dad and family. Below is my daily routine from Monday till Friday.

07.15 am : weak up brush teeth and wash face
07.25 am : wash dish, cup, boil water, sweep and mop the floor
08.00 am : weak toddler up to school
08.15 am : bring toddler to school by walking (cause nearby and toddler cycling)
08.30 am : hang the laundry and wash the balance laundry (cause last nite wash the other half)
09.00 am : twins weak up give them drink milk
09.30 am : have a shower with the twins
10.00 am : play with the twins while watch TV
11.30 am : bring the toddler home
12.00 pm : feed them lunch then I have my lunch while looking 3 of them playing or watching TV
01.00 pm : bring the twins for nap while the toddler watching his favorite VCD
01.15 pm : have a shower with the toddler
01.30 pm : play with toddler
02.00 pm : bring the toddler nap together
05.00 pm : all weak up and I fold the laundry, 3 of them have their milk after that they play together
06.30 pm : have a shower with 3 of them
07.00 pm : feed them and later I have my dinner with 1+2dad while MIL looks after 3 of them
08.00 pm : 3 of them play with 1+2dad while I go shower then take turn with 1+2dad
09.00 pm : toddler watch his favorite VCD while I look after the girls and watch my favorite TV show too
10.00 pm : bring the girls go sleep and give them milk
10.30 pm : toddler comes in to sleep and have his milk
11.00 pm : wash the laundry, dish clean up the dinning table
12.00 am : start using computer

Sometime my MIL will help me to look after the twins if they weak up b4 I send toddler to school, also when I bring toddler back from school. If toddler makes noise want me to feed him first then MIL will help me feed the girls or him (when lunch).

Very busy everyday till I dun have my own time to chat with friend in phone and online, but saw them happy and have a wonderful childhood it let me feel no regret to be Stay At Home Mum.

Let me show you

CARRIE : Wah!!So shoik to sit like this..hehehe.




CARRIE : I come down let you try lar.




CAROL : Wei..how you sit inside ar?? Why i cant wan??




CARRIE : You go a side lar.. let me show you.




CARRIE : You up like this then like this...bla bla bla.
CAROL : Dunno what are you talking about?? I try myself.

Additional :



They always have the same sleeping style :P

Toddler Birthday Party at school

This were some of the photos taken during his school birthday party, just sing a song and blow the candle. He is very happy about this party.

We bring him and the girls to National Zoo on last Sunday, they enjoy the trip but just abit hot that day.

We reach there about 10.30am and spend about 2 to 3 hours there. Carrie slap on half way we walking around the Zoo, so we just 4 of us take photo only.

B4 we when home, 1+2dad bought them a present - it were wind mail. The big one for the big kor kor and the small one are for the 2 mei mei. The wind mail we didn’t take photo yet but the big kor kor one was spoil oledi. He take out all the wing, so cant show you all his present.




This is his birthday cake, the kitty cat was chosen by toddler.




These are his classmate, but the other one was absent.




This one with his class teacher.




Toddler was cutting the cake.

First time be a mother (Part II)

Yesterday was my son 3 years old birthday. Just clip an eyes the time past so fast and I oledi be a mother for 3 years liao.

Continue the story from Part I , when I reach the hospital my hubby drop by me at lobby so I can wait him to park his car (car park quite far). The girl sit in frond of the information counter saw me sit on sofa so she comes to me,

girl : are you ok?
1+2mom : yea.. need to go labor wad cause I think the baby wanna come out today *smile*

girl :I bring you go labor wad.
1+2mom : where izzit ar? I’m waiting for my hubby.

girl : I scare the baby will come out any minute, I bring you to labor wad first then I will let your hubby know.
1+2mom : errrrr.. ok lar! *standing up wanted to follow the girl*

girl : arrr.. I go ask the roller chair first.
1+2mom : no need, I can walk.

girl : no! no! no! I scare you when contraction you will fell off, just wait a minute.
1+2mom : errrr. Ok! Ok! *sit back the sofa and wait*

The roller chair is coming and I been push to the labor wad. Later I saw my hubby coming and he go register and pay the deposit, and I waiting him at the delivery wad.

At wad, I change the hospital provided cloth and lay on the bed wait. That time the contraction quite often and very pain till my back site also pain. My hubby back and I told him,

1+2mom : when the time I deliver baby, you dun go ar! I very scare ler, now very pain.
1+2dad : you said dun want me to accompany you.

1+2mom : aiya.. the ppl said after husband saw wife delivery then next time dun dare to touch his wife mar, now I dun care lor..arrrrr ! omg very pain.
1+2dad : ok! Ok! I will accompany you. Are you ok?

1+2mom : you saw me ok or not? Very pain lar, I dun want have baby anymore. This is the last one.arrrrr..
1+2dad : *smilling*

Suddenly I heard the next door lady scream so loud and then heard the baby cry so loud too, the nurse came and check me I ask her

1+2mom : you know what sex is that baby?
Nurse : dunno?

1+2mom : izzit is her first baby?
Nurse : nope.This is her second baby.

1+2mom : wah! Second baby also scream so loud ar? Charm lor my one is the first one sure louder then her lor.
Nurse : hehe.. doctor recommends you take epidural? It good to take epidural so you can rest more and not pain at all.

1+2mom : then I want to take lor.
Nurse : sure.

Then the nurse on and off check my how many centimeters open, this check also killing me very pain. Every time the nurse checks me I must pull my body up, she said like this cant check ler. Aiya.. what to do very pain mar!

At about 12.30pm, doctor put the epidural so I can really rest, it dun has felling about the contraction and my hubby went back to his office to do some job. His ask me when start, call him wor. What to do, he got important thing to do if I said the baby won wait you ar so you cannot go ar. But luckily the baby not come out so early, my hubby back and doctor is here but baby not ready come out yet. Doctor told me if I were you I will go to sleep lor. Wow! Me and hubby got permition to sleep, so both of us start sleeping (me at bed hubby at chair).

At about 7 pm, doctor came in and said can start delivery liao. So 2 nurses came in and prepare all the stuff and start about 7.10 pm.

The nurse A call me to breath in and start to push when she know the contraction come.

1st time fail cause I breath out all the air when I start push, the nurse B said you must keep the breath and push like going poo.

2nd time fail also and wait again till 3rd time I can push out the baby head but I push too hard till I pengsan in few second but suddenly I heard nurse call me push again the head came out liao so the sound give me awake so I breath in and keep the breath and finally push the baby out.

After baby come out I close my eye and have a rest but suddenly I feel something hot on top of my body so I open my eye and saw a little red baby on it with one eye open look at me, by the time I very happy to see him so health.

The doctor continue doing his job and the nurse bring the baby go out and about few minute 1+2dad carry the baby come in and he told me that the nurse teach he how to hold the baby. He brings the baby to me and saw his little hand moving here and there. He starts crying maybe looking for mommy nen nen?? 1+2dad carry him away and nurse said want to bring him go bath. She will bring the baby to wad when I in wad later on.

My family and 1+2dad family all come to see this tiny little guy after me when to the wad. He looks so smart, his eye rolling around to see us.

About 11 something they all gone home and about 12.15 am I start my breastfeeding journey till his 6 month old.

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY LITTLE DARLING !!!"