Friday, July 21, 2006

Pity child

I so pity one of my class students. His mother not even cares about him, anything all dump to his father. He is 6 years old now, but he haven’t brush any teeth b4. How we know?? Cause last few month we having teeth check at school, so all the student need to bring their toothbrush and mug to school. The nurse will come and teach them proper way to brush teeth and check their teeth.

The next day we told all the parents to bring their toothbrush, his father told us his son dun had any toothbrush at home. My college asks his father to buy one for him. Wow!! What a parent were they?? They know their kids didn’t brush teeth still dunwan to teach them. I notice this type of parent’s very irresponsibility. A small kind of thing also can’t do it.

Somemore, my college babysits him when he just 5 years old. She told me that he not even know how to chew meat cause his last babysitter just feed him porridge no any rice or meat for him. When meal time he need to take about 2 hours to finish his meal. Now getting better, just need about 1 hour. You know not easy to feed a children eat rice, we need to wait the kids chew and swallow then feed another feed. If porridge very easy, just need to wait they swallow then feed again no need wait for them chew. 1+2dad also very lazy to feed the kids, I said that is not easy job. Somemore I need to feed 3 of them everyday.

He almost 365 days flu, when running nose he not even bother to wipe it off. Sometime we saw it, we will ask him why not ask us take tissue paper for him. He just looks at us. My college told me when meal time he sneezing wont cover his mouth so the dish are full of his yuck!! They teach him so many times but he still does the same.

One more thing, I dunno what his mother do?? Why she want to have kids but dunwan to bother him. On Saturday, she bring her son to my college house for babysit. My college ask him whether he having his breakfast or not (they didn’t include breakfast, just 2 meal). What he told my college was no. My college asks him why not having his breakfast b4 you come and your mommy didn’t buy any bread for you?? What he answer was :” my mommy said no time to buy bread for me cause her college want to go home.” What the hell of this mother said?? Didn’t her son more important then to send a college home?? She can just drop by a bread shop to buy bread, I dun think need to take more then 10 min??

I so pity this kid, he is a very smart kid. If his parents good educate him, I sure his is a grate kid but this irresponsibly parents spoiled him.

12 comments:

mom2ashley said...

yea i too don;t understand these kind of people....

shoppingmum said...

That's why I was so stressed out when I operated a kindy last time. Lots of parents just "dumped" their kids to us and expected us to take care of everything. I used to have a boy who's so neglected he doesn't know how to eat rice! The parents don't take care of him, only send him to a irresponsible nanny from Mon to Sat day and night. Gee, don't want to take care but give birth for what?

Egghead said...

wah! this is just disturbing... I guess our society is turning to the negative side everyday :(

IMMomsDaughter said...

Yeah, I really pity the boy. It's definitely the parent's reponsibility to help him develop,

beckysmum said...

They are not qualified to be parents! *speechless*

wtpgRR said...

Indeed a sad thing to hear but somehow, such people do exist...and hopefully the child dont turn out to be another one...

Zara's Mama said...

What a pity.. some parents are really irresponsible.. maybe for this case, it's 'accident' so the parents just don't care.

However, they are sending the kid to kindergarten, that means they are willing to 'invest', just probably no time to spend with the kid.

Poor child.

薇薇 said...

Being parent is not easy job, we need to sacrifice many things, time,hobby etc. If you dont want to sacrifice then it it better don't have kid.

Jesslyn said...

I pity the parent too! Pity them for being so selfish & iresponsible!

1+2mom said...

mom2ashley,
same here :)

shoppingmum,
yea, some parents even ask us why their daughter fall down?? They think teacher 24 hours look at their daughter.

egghead,
yalor, Malaysia no peace liao.

immomsdaughter,
nowaday parents like to dump everything to other ppl. Like babysitter, they think the babysitter will teach their children everything at there.

beckymum,
thankz for drop by :)
i agree with you!!

wtpgrr,
they should go back to learn how to be parents. They dun scare next time what thier children will do the same to them.

zara's mama,
i dun think they willing to 'invest' him, just because other send their kids to school they also will do the same. Dun say those excuse that no time. Time is manage by youself, if cant do it that mean is your probelm with managing the time. So many parents told us like that.

薇薇,
yalor, dunno why they can 'tahan' their kids like that.

jesslyn,
yea!!yea!!*hand up and agree*

AsleyLee said...

What kind of parents?!! Why gave birth the child but without caring him? So kasihan..

1+2mum said...

hui sia,
yalor, very pity that child. The whole class know his is the most dirty in the class, so poor of him.