Stubborn son

Every morning, I want to wake my son up to school.

1+2mom : boy, wake up lor..want to go school lor.
Boy : *still sleeping*

1+2mom : *shake him* boy, boy.
Boy : *open eyes and look at me then close back*

1+2mom : *shake him again* boy boy, you want drink nen nen??
Boy : yes. *finally he wake up and have his milk*

After finish his milk, want to change his school uniform and I must pursuit him again.

1+2mom : boy come change your uniform go school lor, now very late.
Boy : dunwan, I dunwan go school.

1+2mom : your teacher and friends all wait you at school.
Boy : dunwan. *I call MIL (Mother In Law) to help*

MIL : come mar mar change for you. (talk in mandarin)
Boy : *go change his uniform*

In the afternoon, my son back from school.

1+2mom : boy come eat mum mum (lunch).
Boy : *run here and there*

1+2mom : boy boy, come eat mum mum.
Boy : *still pretend didn’t hear him*

1+2mom : boy boy *using louder voice*
Boy : *come and sit down eat his lunch*

After lunch, need him to take bath.

1+2mom : boy boy go take bath, you so dirty.
Boy : I dunwan take bath.

1+2mom : boy boy dun let mummy said so many time to call you take bath.
Boy : I dunwan take bath *run away*

1+2mom : *shout to him* boy boy
Boy : *run to MIL* mar mar I dunwan take bath.

MIL : mar mar take bath with you.
Boy: I want mar mar, I dunwan take bath. I want change shirt, my leg pain pain..i dunwan take bath.

MIL : boy boy very dirty, go take bath.
Boy : mar mar take bath with me.

Till the napping time, I again and again want to pursuit him to go sleep.

1+2mom : boy boy time to sleep.
Boy : I dunwan to sleep.

1+2mom : boy boy come lar, go sleep. After you wake up daddy come back ask daddy bring you go park.
Boy : *follow me go bedroom*

Same as dinner time, evening bath and nite time go sleep. I must pursuit and sometime need to take out the cane (he not even scare the cane *roll eyes*) to let him done the daily routine.

He is very stubborn, like on Friday he back from school. That day because of the weather very hot my FIL (Father In Law) decided to fetch him home, so he with MIL when to school to fetch him and I stay at home with the girls. Few min. later I heard he came back and call for me.

Boy : mummy, why you didn’t come to school?
1+2mom : yeh yeh (grandfather = FIL) and mar mar (grandmother = MIL) go school fetch you mar.

Boy : I dunwan mar mar and yeh yeh.. I want mummy go school fetch boy boy.. Mummy brings boy boy go school. *with his crying voice* (he want me bring him go school again and bring him back)
1+2mom : dunwanlar.. your friend and teacher they all gone home, no ppl at school now.

Boy : I want mommy go school.
1+2mom : *headache* mommy bring you go buy mum mum (lunch) *try to turn his point*

Boy : I dunwan.
1+2mom : *hehe..oledi reach his favorite show* wah..you see the ABC start already.

Boy : *turn his head to the TV*
1+2mom : *luckily the show start if not dunno when can settle down him*

How to have twins?

About this title, twinsmom and angeline blog about it and I
also 1 of the twins mom so let me talk about my experience.

Being a mother of twins, the most common and often asked question
is:
“Was because you or your husband family has twins in the history?” (twinsmom i copy you..hehe)

Yes. 1+2dad’s family got history. His aunties are a pair of twins. B4 I married I told 1+2dad hope we can get a pair of twins which are 1 gal
and 1 boy so I can close shop early..hehe. He said not so easy lar.

I married at age 23 years old and hope to get a baby next year which
was a dragon year baby so can same as us (me and 1+2dad are
same age), but my dream wont come true.

We wait about 1 year plus still dun have any baby and waist a lot of pregnancy test tube. Later we decided to see doctor and this doctor is recommended by 1+2dad ex-boss wife (she cant pregnant about
10 years and see this doctor get pregnant in about 1 year).We see this doctor about half a year than I get pregnant, but not twins.

The second pregnancy is abit surprise cause we just let it be. I wish I
finish my job b4 age 30 years old so we can have baby fast and I didn’t think i can get twins in the 2nd pregnancy cause my son and the twins just 1 year gap. When the time we know is twins and need to arrange a maid to help us. I cant handle 1 toddler (that time he just 18 months) and a pair of twins baby in the same time.

June 2003 (week 10)
Should be go back check up in 4 weeks time but my morning sick very bad so go back in the 3rd week. Doctor scan and let us know it was a twins and cause me very bad morning sick. I had to hang drip at the clinic and 1+2dad spoilt his all arrangement when he know I get a pair of twins. (he decided to order a new car, luckily didn’t can save the money for the gals)

December 2003 (week 32)
I admit to hospital about 5 days because my stomach sometime abit hard and discharge some brownish. I celebrate my charismas at hospital that year. Go home about 1 week admit to hospital again.

Jan 2004(week 35)
This time baby need to come out early, cause the water in the water beg suddenly increase so much and scare the baby will drink the water. Doctor decided to do c-sec 2 days later. (cause of ‘T’ too needs to do c-sec).

1.08pm Carol reach the world with 1.48 kgs
1.09pm Carrie follow then with 1.75kgs

These 2 gals want to come out early to get ‘ang paw’ (my due is during Chinese New Year). I though I will lose Carrie because her lung not working properly so she need the ventilator to help her breath. Luckily she ok in the 3rd day, no need the ventilator but she got jaunties (for normal baby the level is ok but for premature baby she need to keep under the light).

I go see them at the 4th day, I nearly want to cry when I saw them. 1+2dad told me the 1st two day the gals body all with tube lagi kelian, he cant stay there too long cause he also want to cry. 1+2dad dint told me anything about the gal’s condition just let me know the twin I in the incubator and the twin II with ventilator and abit dangerous. He didn’t let me know how dangerous she and I are just c-sec think of maybe will lost one of them. (I’m do idiot, should think of the good side mar)

Now saw them very healthy, I’m so lucky still got 2 of them with me.




left : Carol with 1.48kgs and height 40cm
right : Carrie with 1.75kgs and height 47cm






left : Carrie with 8.8kgs
right : Carol with 8.6kgs
*They always got about 200g difference*

Happy smile

This video clip is Carol & Carrie when they 6 months plus play with 1+2dad, they smile happily.

I like they laugh together, very cute.

Swimming

This few days are very hot, so I let them play some water in front of the house. They very enjoy till dunwan come out from the pool.

This pool is 5 ft long but I got one 4 ft dunno last time they finish swimming I oledi put where. Luckily I got 1 extra if not they sure make so much noise cause I oledi promise them if they didn’t naughty I will let them play water.

These are some of the photos I took when they play water.




They like to play water.




Carter learns swimming at school so he try to show me.




Can you guess who is who?? Sometime when they wet i also mix them up.




This pool is big enough for 3 of them to play.