Easy Sleep??

That day saw MG blog about to getting a baby and toddler to sleep in the same time very interesting hor. About me, I got a 3 years old boy and a pair of 18 mth twins sound like very hard to get 3 of them sleep together.

At nap time about 1 pm everyday, I will let the girls sleep first cause they just need about 15 min to fall a sleep. They having their milk b4 nap, when the time finish the milk they fall a sleep liao.

How about my son?? Hehehe..He will watch the VCD next door or sometime will stay with my MIL. After the girls slept, I will accompany my son till about 2 pm then I will get him to nap too. Because no one play with him and he wake up early in the morning so he very fast fall a sleep.

The nite time about 10 pm, the girls all go up to sleep. They will have their milk again b4 sleep. This time they quite hard to sleep, dunno why?? After the milk, they will turn here and there to find a good position to sleep. Sometime they will kick each other and I had to separate them again till one of them fall sleep first. How about the other girl?? Because no one play with her or talk with her so she will fall a sleep after the first slept liao.

Where is my son??? Sometime he with his daddy plays online game or watches VCD again or plays at downstairs. After the girls slept I will get him to sleep, but sometime he will follow the girls sleep together.

If my son follow the girls sleep together, all of them have their milk first then I will told my son let mei mei sleep first then he can start talking or singing as he like. The girls dun dare to disturb their kor kor sleep and I sleep between my son and the girls. If they still turn here and there I just keep telling them to sleep. If they still dunwan to sleep I will told them “mummy will go out if you all dunwan to sleep, mummy want to do work”
Hehe..all of them dun dare to make noise and fall sleep very fast.

If I let them talking and laughing, I think I need more then an hour to let them sleep. Sometime I fall sleep first then them, when I a wake I saw all of them slept liao.

Accompany kids sleep sometime feel boring when you want to do something but cant and have to wait the kids slept first. It may take quite a long time just wait them fall sleep and do nothing. It seem wasting a lot of time, but sometime when my son talk so many thing that you haven’t hear b4 and sing some song just for you..wow.. it seems so wonderful. (Cause my son dunwan to sing a song in front of many ppl, sometime ask him to sing a song for my MIL he also dunwan.)

Eating

My girls eat a lot but they seem not grow so much. They now about 18 month old but just about 8.3 kgs nia, Early this month we bring them for jab, I though they weight about nearly 9 kgs gua but when we weight them.. HUH?? Carol is 7.9 kgs and Carrie is 8.1 kgs.

Haiz..dunno what wrong with them?? Everyday they wakeup about 8 am and I let them had 4 oz milk later they get some biscuits. About 10 am I let them bath after that they got some fruit again. Then about 12 pm they had their lunch. At 1 pm they had their milk b4 nap, sometime about 4 oz sometime I just gave 3 oz see how much they ate just now.

After nap about 5 pm, they had their milk again this time is 4 oz. Later they play play a while and have some snack again. We had our dinner at 7 pm, so they eat again. After that about 8 to 9 pm they still get some biscuits or bread. One hour later, they had their milk again b4 sleep it about 5 oz.

1+2dad ask me why he always saw the girls eating but they seem dun grow so much. I said I dunno, they saw ppl eat they will ask some from them. They non stop eating, sometime they will take themselves and ask me to open the food for them.

They not like my son will ‘choose eat’, they eat everything you gave them to eat. Include ice-cream, junk food and many. They drink a lot of water too, and like fruit very much.

Sometime I very happy they like my body shape cause I slim but sometime they make me worry, scare they wont grow properly..mother always worry so much. MIL told me they grow healthy mar ‘ok’ lor..she just ask me keep checking their grow. I ask pead b4, he recommend me let them change milk powder to dunno what brand got gain plus one de but I told him my girls dun like other favor so no choice to continue the recent milk powder.

Happy Birthday To 1+2dad

Dear Darling Hubby,

Tomorrow is your birthday, I know you oledi take leave to accompany us for your birthday (actually we accompany you :P) hope we got a wonderful holiday.

Thank you for loving us and spend more time with us, I really appreciate what you had done to us. You are a good hubby, when I pregnant you spend more time with me and accompany me to every check up no matter how busy you are.

Every occasion you will remember , I’m the worse women that not remember what present I had gave to you, what food you like to eat (I just know some). I just know you like to play game and drink cool drink. I know you dun like house food and soup so I think very hard to use this food to stay you at home but I know I would be a very ‘tai fong’ wife so you can stay with me forever (hehe..not ‘tai fong’ till allow you to get another women :P)

You are a good father too.You will help to take care the children when I’m not free, I know lot of man wont do that. I know you want to got a good relationship with the kids so you have to spend more time with them play with them. They also very like you, especially your son..he will always ask where is daddy?

Hope our relationship will last forever.

“Happy Birthday to you Darling Hubby!!!”

From your Lovely wife,
1+2mom

Gift for 1+2dad

This set of display toys were my gifts to 1+2dad dunno for what occasion oledi but I know is a present for him. That day I also think of where I put this set of toys liao. Two day b4, my son dunno where he dick out this set of display toys. I was very happy to see this set of toys cause I very like one pair of the toy among those set of toys.

Hehe..actually it is present for me more then 1+2dad. I like it so much still I keep it nicely but dunno where I put after we move to this house. I got so many toys but now all is belong to my kids liao.




This is the set of display toys I give 1+2dad as a present.




This is the pair I like the most, isn’t it so cute. I hope we can be like this couple of gong gong popo next time.

Next Friday is 1+2dad birthday, we still not yet planning what to do or how to celebrate his birthday cause the next two day is Father’s Day.

Take this opportunity to wish the entire father out there
“HAPPY FATHER’S DAY”

Port Dickson Trip

Sorry for late update cause back from PD (Port Dickson) I and 1+2dad were fall sick so didn’t blog for a week.

Last Saturday morning was a rainy day, I though we cant go but 1+2dad said it got difference between 2 places maybe at PD no rain so we just follow our plant to go PD.

Actually we want to depart on 8 am but the kids were slept until 7.45 am so just let it be. I weak up at 7 am and finish the entire house chore about 7.30 am. I went up to see whether all of them weak up or not but they still sleeping include 1+2dad. I weak them up and feed the kids. Later on, I change and clean the kids and 1+2dad look after them then I go pack up the stuff. (Lazy pack last nite :P)

About 9 am we start our journey to PD, but the sky also start raining. On the way to PD quite traffic jam and took us about 2 ½ hours to reach the destination. It still raining but we not so heavy, we just go to beach have a look. Wah..I though not so many ppl there cause still raining mar..but the beach full of ppl.

I change the kids and play near the beach. About ½ an hour rain stop and sun come out but not so hot. The kids so enjoy, they like the sand and seaside so much.

The girls like to play water and they didn’t scare the water so salty. My son he told me he dunwan to swimming cause the water so salty and he just like to play the sand. He still follows 1+2dad go play at the water.

About 1.30 pm we travel back to home. The kids all very tired, they all sleep in the car on the way back to home. We reach home about 3 pm, 1+2dad and my son go sleep together while the girls with me. (cause my son didn’t sleep in the car but the girls and I did)

The next day, I play the movie and photos to show my MIL (mother in law), the kids saw the movie at the part of them playing the water and sand they were so happy. They very enjoy this trip then to Zoo last month.

Some of the photos took at PD.




The beach full of ppl.




Still raining so I used the umbrella to cover them but they seem dun like it :(




Carrie : Mommy you see my hand so dirty.
1+2mom : Honey..dun worry mommy will wash it afterward.




Carol : My shoe is floating, quick quick get it back.




Carter : I’m so happy cause my mom wont scold me today. I can play the sand and water as much as I can.

School holiday

Last Saturday start for 2 weeks school holiday so my son will be whole day at home with me and his sisters.

Today he weak up as usual at about 8 am together with his mei mei. Haiz.. make me headache cause I need to do house chore but he want me to accompany him to play block or toys with him.

Usually b4 school holiday he will gone to school at 8.15 am then when I back home I still can do some house chore like hang the laundry while the girls stand near the gate watch at me, but now my son at home I cant do other thing but just stay with him.

This morning 1+2dad weak up about 7.45 am so my son and the girls too. 1+2dad told me that my son wants him to stay with him and dun want him to go work wor.

I think he miss his daddy so much. Every Sunday my son very happy to see his daddy sleep next to him when he weak up. So as on Monday he hope his daddy also stay with him like on Sunday.

My son at home I really cant do anything so I had to send him to school. If just my girls they can play themselves I just have to make sure they play safe and no need to accompany them.

I always tell ppl it easy to take care 2 girls rather then only my son. My son very active and he wont listen what I ask him to do but my girls will. I must look after him cause if not you wont know what he will do like maybe he will climb very high or he will mess up the house. You need to keep all the things and sometime need to clean up the house too (he will pour the water on the floor and play with it).

My girls, they just stare on you see what you doing if you give them some snack they will sit or walk with the cup of snack but they wont disturb you doing things. Sometime they will help you to pick up something too..hehe. B4 I got baby, I oledi tell 1+2dad I like girls very much but I have to give birth a son first b4 got daughter, cause in my mine kor kor can protect mei mei mar.

Luckily I got son first cause oledi manja from the beginning so continue manja him lor. If I got daughter first maybe I will choose love lor..hehe..I told ppl I wont choose love but now I said I will :P

Tell you all one things. Carol very stick to 1+2dad ler cause sometime 1+2dad walk away from her when he play with her she will cry ler. Carrie did the same thing like Carol to me, so sometime I had to bring her along to watch me bath.

Yesterday we on the way home from my dad house, Carol want 1+2dad hold her hand while 1+2dad was driving ler (she sit beside 1+2dad and luckily our car is auto). I laugh at 1+2dad said she is your girl friend till cant let you go lor.

This Saturday we will bring the kids to Port Dickson for 1 day trip (as my son school holiday trip). Hope they will like the sand beach and some sun bath too.

Where they cute ???

This is few photos I took that day they play outside the front door. Carrie knows how to wear the slipper but we not yet buy any slipper for her cause very hard to find the size to fit her foot, so she wear our adult or her kor kor slipper.




Carrie tries to fix into her kor kor slipper.




Carrie looks so happy when she done her job.

While they play at front door, I go and clean the floor. Carol saw me sweep the floor she also go take another bloom to help me. Wahahaha..so funny she takes a big bloom with one hand and the other hand with a piece of paper.




Carol : Why mommy can sweep the floor very easy and I cant wan better use hand to pick up..hehe..I’m so cleaver.

This other few photos I took when back from shopping cause they look so pretty when wearing the skirt. I seldom give them wear skirt cause very mah fan and scare they get cold, sometime air-cont in shopping centre very cold.




We so cute ler !!!




Carrie with her sweet sweet smile.




Carrie : You see!!! I can close 1 eye !!!




This is another same sleeping pose, they like mirror hor.

Toddler choose love

Yesterday afternoon after all of them weak up from nap and play in the room, suddenly my son told me this.

Toddler : “ mommy, I sayang lili (Carrie nick name) I dunwan rou rou (Carol nice name).”
1+2mom *smile* : “har..you dunwan rou rou then mommy give uncle lor.”

Toddler *shake his head* : “no..mommy sayang rou rou, rou rou give mommy.”
1+2mom : “you said dunwan rou rou then mommy call uncle come and
take rou rou lor.”

Toddler : “rou rou give mommy, dunwan give uncle.”
1+2mom : “ok, ok.”

Children also know how to choose love, but I think maybe got fate between two of them. I realize very early that toddler like Carrie more then Carol cause sometime he got food he will share with Carrie first then I ask him to give some to Carol if not he wont do that.

Another time, I let Carrie sit on toddler stomach play with toddler then we play it again at room b4 nap. I let Carol sit first, after play a while he ask me to put Carrie on his stomach said want to play with Carrie. Haiz… I know he like Carrie very much cause just now we play like that at down stair he didn’t ask for Carol to play. Carol very charm. Never mind I will teach kor kor to love you too. You still got mei mei, mommy and daddy sayang you mar.

Some of my kid photos

This is Carol.




This is Carrie.




Are we look so alike ???Can you guess who is who ???




Carrie : I just weak up, can you see my beautiful hair ???




Girls : Poor kor kor just can ‘swim’ inside the bucket, we can share in the bathtub..hehe.




This is my girls another same sleeping pose :)

If I could be

I though I wont get this assignment but I found out from Msau blog, Poor me need to think what if I could be when I got lazy bug. Nolar, thankz Msau I no need scratch head what to blog liao.

What follows is a list of different occupations.
The reader must select at least five of them.
The reader may add more if they like to the list before they pass it on (after the reader select five of the items as it was passed to the reader).
Of the five selected, the reader is to finish each phrase with what he would do as a member of that profession. Then pass it on to three other bloggers.


Here’s that list: (My additions are in bold) :

If [Reader] could be a scientist // If [Reader] could be a farmer
If [Reader] could be a musician // If [Reader] could be a doctor
If [Reader] could be a painter // If [Reader] could be a gardener
If [Reader] could be a missionary // If [Reader] could be a chef
If [Reader] could be an architect // If [Reader] could be a linguist
If [Reader] could be a psychologist // If [Reader] could be a librarian
If [Reader] could be an athlete // If [Reader] could be a lawyer
If [Reader] could be an innkeeper // If [Reader] could be a professor
If [Reader] could be a writer // If [Reader] could be a backup dancer
If [Reader] could be a llama-rider // If [Reader] could be a bonnie pirate
If [Reader] could be a midget stripper // If [Reader] could be a proctologist
If [Reader] could be a TV-Chat Show host // If [Reader] could be a pariah
If [Reader] could be an actor // If [Reader] could be a judge
If [Reader] could be a Jedi // If [Reader] could be a mob boss
If [Reader] could be a backup singer // If [Reader] could be a CEO
If [Reader] could be a movie reviewer // If [Reader] could be a monkey’s uncle
If [Reader] could be a bible archaeologist //If [Reader] could be a househusband
If [Reader] could be a lifeguard //If [Reader] could be a comic artist
If [Reader] could be a stockbroker//If [Reader] could be a travel writer
If [Reader] could be a food reviewer //If [Reader] could be a politician
If [Reader] could be a male underwear model //If [Reader] could be a fashion designer
If [Reader] could be an game designer // If [Reader] could be a dog-trainer

If I could be a scientist, I will make something that human can live under the sea like fish can breathe in the water.

If I could be a farmer, I want to plant something taste like meat so all the vagetarian can taest the meat without eat any meat.

If I could be a doctor, I want to create some medicine that can let guys eat to reduce his sexual thinking when he want sex but dun have women there. This can get less women been rape.

If I could be a CEO, I want to try how buzy are they and find out why got so many entertainments to entertain.

If I could be a fashion designer, I want to make some cloth for baby that it will follow the weather or room temperature to adjust the cloth for cool down or worm up the body. Cause sometime dunno when baby too cool or too hot.

Errr.. I duuno who to inflict so no one will kena.

Daily routine without maid

Our home without maid oledi 1 month liao, it quite busy and tired but feel happy cause the kids get more attention by 1+2dad and family. Below is my daily routine from Monday till Friday.

07.15 am : weak up brush teeth and wash face
07.25 am : wash dish, cup, boil water, sweep and mop the floor
08.00 am : weak toddler up to school
08.15 am : bring toddler to school by walking (cause nearby and toddler cycling)
08.30 am : hang the laundry and wash the balance laundry (cause last nite wash the other half)
09.00 am : twins weak up give them drink milk
09.30 am : have a shower with the twins
10.00 am : play with the twins while watch TV
11.30 am : bring the toddler home
12.00 pm : feed them lunch then I have my lunch while looking 3 of them playing or watching TV
01.00 pm : bring the twins for nap while the toddler watching his favorite VCD
01.15 pm : have a shower with the toddler
01.30 pm : play with toddler
02.00 pm : bring the toddler nap together
05.00 pm : all weak up and I fold the laundry, 3 of them have their milk after that they play together
06.30 pm : have a shower with 3 of them
07.00 pm : feed them and later I have my dinner with 1+2dad while MIL looks after 3 of them
08.00 pm : 3 of them play with 1+2dad while I go shower then take turn with 1+2dad
09.00 pm : toddler watch his favorite VCD while I look after the girls and watch my favorite TV show too
10.00 pm : bring the girls go sleep and give them milk
10.30 pm : toddler comes in to sleep and have his milk
11.00 pm : wash the laundry, dish clean up the dinning table
12.00 am : start using computer

Sometime my MIL will help me to look after the twins if they weak up b4 I send toddler to school, also when I bring toddler back from school. If toddler makes noise want me to feed him first then MIL will help me feed the girls or him (when lunch).

Very busy everyday till I dun have my own time to chat with friend in phone and online, but saw them happy and have a wonderful childhood it let me feel no regret to be Stay At Home Mum.

Let me show you

CARRIE : Wah!!So shoik to sit like this..hehehe.




CARRIE : I come down let you try lar.




CAROL : Wei..how you sit inside ar?? Why i cant wan??




CARRIE : You go a side lar.. let me show you.




CARRIE : You up like this then like this...bla bla bla.
CAROL : Dunno what are you talking about?? I try myself.

Additional :



They always have the same sleeping style :P

Toddler Birthday Party at school

This were some of the photos taken during his school birthday party, just sing a song and blow the candle. He is very happy about this party.

We bring him and the girls to National Zoo on last Sunday, they enjoy the trip but just abit hot that day.

We reach there about 10.30am and spend about 2 to 3 hours there. Carrie slap on half way we walking around the Zoo, so we just 4 of us take photo only.

B4 we when home, 1+2dad bought them a present - it were wind mail. The big one for the big kor kor and the small one are for the 2 mei mei. The wind mail we didn’t take photo yet but the big kor kor one was spoil oledi. He take out all the wing, so cant show you all his present.




This is his birthday cake, the kitty cat was chosen by toddler.




These are his classmate, but the other one was absent.




This one with his class teacher.




Toddler was cutting the cake.

First time be a mother (Part II)

Yesterday was my son 3 years old birthday. Just clip an eyes the time past so fast and I oledi be a mother for 3 years liao.

Continue the story from Part I , when I reach the hospital my hubby drop by me at lobby so I can wait him to park his car (car park quite far). The girl sit in frond of the information counter saw me sit on sofa so she comes to me,

girl : are you ok?
1+2mom : yea.. need to go labor wad cause I think the baby wanna come out today *smile*

girl :I bring you go labor wad.
1+2mom : where izzit ar? I’m waiting for my hubby.

girl : I scare the baby will come out any minute, I bring you to labor wad first then I will let your hubby know.
1+2mom : errrrr.. ok lar! *standing up wanted to follow the girl*

girl : arrr.. I go ask the roller chair first.
1+2mom : no need, I can walk.

girl : no! no! no! I scare you when contraction you will fell off, just wait a minute.
1+2mom : errrr. Ok! Ok! *sit back the sofa and wait*

The roller chair is coming and I been push to the labor wad. Later I saw my hubby coming and he go register and pay the deposit, and I waiting him at the delivery wad.

At wad, I change the hospital provided cloth and lay on the bed wait. That time the contraction quite often and very pain till my back site also pain. My hubby back and I told him,

1+2mom : when the time I deliver baby, you dun go ar! I very scare ler, now very pain.
1+2dad : you said dun want me to accompany you.

1+2mom : aiya.. the ppl said after husband saw wife delivery then next time dun dare to touch his wife mar, now I dun care lor..arrrrr ! omg very pain.
1+2dad : ok! Ok! I will accompany you. Are you ok?

1+2mom : you saw me ok or not? Very pain lar, I dun want have baby anymore. This is the last one.arrrrr..
1+2dad : *smilling*

Suddenly I heard the next door lady scream so loud and then heard the baby cry so loud too, the nurse came and check me I ask her

1+2mom : you know what sex is that baby?
Nurse : dunno?

1+2mom : izzit is her first baby?
Nurse : nope.This is her second baby.

1+2mom : wah! Second baby also scream so loud ar? Charm lor my one is the first one sure louder then her lor.
Nurse : hehe.. doctor recommends you take epidural? It good to take epidural so you can rest more and not pain at all.

1+2mom : then I want to take lor.
Nurse : sure.

Then the nurse on and off check my how many centimeters open, this check also killing me very pain. Every time the nurse checks me I must pull my body up, she said like this cant check ler. Aiya.. what to do very pain mar!

At about 12.30pm, doctor put the epidural so I can really rest, it dun has felling about the contraction and my hubby went back to his office to do some job. His ask me when start, call him wor. What to do, he got important thing to do if I said the baby won wait you ar so you cannot go ar. But luckily the baby not come out so early, my hubby back and doctor is here but baby not ready come out yet. Doctor told me if I were you I will go to sleep lor. Wow! Me and hubby got permition to sleep, so both of us start sleeping (me at bed hubby at chair).

At about 7 pm, doctor came in and said can start delivery liao. So 2 nurses came in and prepare all the stuff and start about 7.10 pm.

The nurse A call me to breath in and start to push when she know the contraction come.

1st time fail cause I breath out all the air when I start push, the nurse B said you must keep the breath and push like going poo.

2nd time fail also and wait again till 3rd time I can push out the baby head but I push too hard till I pengsan in few second but suddenly I heard nurse call me push again the head came out liao so the sound give me awake so I breath in and keep the breath and finally push the baby out.

After baby come out I close my eye and have a rest but suddenly I feel something hot on top of my body so I open my eye and saw a little red baby on it with one eye open look at me, by the time I very happy to see him so health.

The doctor continue doing his job and the nurse bring the baby go out and about few minute 1+2dad carry the baby come in and he told me that the nurse teach he how to hold the baby. He brings the baby to me and saw his little hand moving here and there. He starts crying maybe looking for mommy nen nen?? 1+2dad carry him away and nurse said want to bring him go bath. She will bring the baby to wad when I in wad later on.

My family and 1+2dad family all come to see this tiny little guy after me when to the wad. He looks so smart, his eye rolling around to see us.

About 11 something they all gone home and about 12.15 am I start my breastfeeding journey till his 6 month old.

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY LITTLE DARLING !!!"

Toddler Birthday

Next Monday (2nd May) is my son 3 years old birthday, tomorrow will bring a birthday cake to celebrate with his new classmate at school.

Just now about 8.30pm we brought him to King’s bought a chocolate birthday cake with Kitty cat candy add on (this cartoon he choose himself).

This few days he very excited about his birthday, everyday ask 1+2dad go and buy the birthday cake. Just now b4 sleep he said tomorrow go school got birthday cake and blow the candle so he want sleep early.

He like to blow the candle and celebrate birthday very much, at other ppl birthday party he sure wants to blow the candle by himself once again after the birthday girl/boy had blow the candle. hehehe..very the paiseh ler.

This Sunday not yet had any idea where to bring him go, maybe go Zoo or bird park see how first. But we sure will celebrate with him once again in his actual birthday.

Claver Boy

Yesterday is he fifth day without mommy at school, he done very well job.

Yesterday morning at car, he still said dunwan go school.

Toddler : “mommy I dunwan go school.” *with crying face*
Mommy : “mommy will come and get you back when school over.”

Toddler : “mommy I dunwan go school.”
Mommy : “mommy want to go home see mei mei, mei mei cry at home want mommy.”

Toddler *thinking and blink his eyes* : “mommy go home see mei mei, afterward come and fetch boy boy.”
Mommy *I dunno why he suddenly says like that but I’m very happy to hear that* : “wah..cleaver boy.”

When he reach school he follow the teacher go to class, he say bye bye to me.

I promise him will bring him back so I go and fetch him. (cause the day before yesterday my IL go and fetch him, when he back from school to hug me and cried said mommy didn’t go school fetch him. Feel very sorry to hear that, from this case I know must keep promise to the kids).

He is happy to see me and didn’t cry anymore, and teacher said he did done very well job. I’m so happy to hear that and very proud of him, he is very good and claver boy.

That nite, he watches VCD next door and I pamper my daughters sleep. He open the door and said he want oioi (in hokian mean sleep) tomorrow go school, but today is public holiday so I told him tomorrow no school then one more day can go school.

This morning he weak up about 8.15 am and told me he want to go school. I told him again today no school, this is a holiday all kor kor jie jie no go to school. I think he like to go school very much, let me scare of few day dunno how to persuade him go to school.

Note : Yesterday blogspot down so I cant post up this post so the date will have some changes.

Dream Lover

Everyone sure got his/her dream lover, are your dream lover match with your real spouse? What did you expect your dream lover look like? Please share with us.

Mine dream lover is non smoker, alcohol drinker and gambler. I dun care what he look like but must hardworking to have better life for our family. My dream lover was appearing that was my 1+2dad.

He cares about me and loves me so much. He hardworking hope our family have a better life.

He dun like ppl smoke but has to smile the smoke from his boss, customer and friends. He drinks alcohol but not like kaki botol. He also forces to drink so much cause of business entertainment which is needed to give face to customer. Sometime in dinner also need to drink cause friends call. About the gambling, he just play when CNY. If go Genting casino, he just use RM 200 as base if all lose he will stop and if win about RM 100 to 200 he will also stop playing.

Will you disappoint if you’re another one was not as your dream lover?

First day without mummy at school

Below is my son saying out with his hard, I just type it out on behalf of him.

Today was my third day to nursery, also the first day without mummy accompany me. The first 2 day were just fun and like this school very much, cant wait till the next day morning.

But today, it totally difference form the last 2 days. Mummy just went home and put me in this stranger place without her accompany me. I just start cried when mummy walk out from the class and teacher just catch me and wont let me follow my mummy go home.

Teacher persuades me give me some cookies and let me play outside the classroom. Sometime I join back the class and sometime I just miss my mummy and daddy then I will start cried again. Teacher persuades me again and the kakak there also accompany me to play at outside playground.

Wait..wait..wait till teacher bring all of us waiting mummy at the front door. I saw my mummy and I start cried again, I said bye bye to teacher and friends. Teacher asks me whether tomorrow want to come again I nod my head.

I dunno why I nod my head but I really dunwan go to school again. Tonite must tell mummy I dunwan go to school, I dunwan go kor kor jie jie there tomorrow.

Just now b4 bed, I told mummy I dunwan go school. Mummy asks me why? I told her I want mummy stay with me at school but mummy said all kor kor jie jie there also dun have mummy stay with them, they mummy will get them when school over.

I keep telling mummy dunwan go school, mummy said I naughty cause I always throw things, bit mei mei and dunwan hear mummy say. I told her I dunwan naughty, I dunwan throw things and I dunwan bit mei mei. I will keep all the things and I will listen what mummy tell me. I wont be naughty anymore so mummy wont send me to school again.

Mummy said :
Poor litter darling! Mummy has no choice but have to send you to school. Your daddy wants you to learn something new at the school. I know you got stress till went back from school told me that your stomach pain but just want us to pay attention to you, and you so manja us. If next year start school you will also like that, mummy has to give you go to school earlier cause teacher can pay more attention to you cause just you the only one new at there. Poor darling, mummy not dumps you at school but will pick you up after school over. Maybe let you try few more days then daddy mummy will decide whether give you continue or not. Be patient, just few more days.

Who’s False?

Now a day many young girls get pregnant b4 married, are this human suck or moral suck?? Refer to old old day, where got so many this type of case will happen.

This girls very young get pregnant and the father dun have any economy support, how they alive. They sure will fight about the money every month, who to take care the baby?

Cause they still young dun have enough fun then got family liao, both of them sure argue who to go out with friend who to stay at home to take care the child.

One of them is my younger sister, she married on age of 19 yo. After married within a year we hear that she argue with her husband about the financial. Her husband changes so many jobs, every job he work on it within a month. My sis so headache about her husband dunwan find a job work properly.

Our family very headache about her, and we just give her advice that this husband she like so much and dunwan play safe till got baby now please dun blame so much. This husband even though we didn’t saw b4 then she got married liao. She just break with her boyfriend that we know about a month after that she told us she pregnant liao.

She got so many problems with her husband but they still dunwan play safe till got another baby. They still got financial problem, if got another baby they will surfer so much but she cant let this baby go.

For my opinion, girls should be like a piece of paper b4 married. I know some of the guy dun mine but will they really dun mine about his wife not so clean?? I dun think so. Maybe few years later when the time got arguing will it be a part of the reason?

Guys maybe can have sex with girlfriend but if wife they sure want the clean one lar. I dunno how about the guy opinion?

Maid back to Indonesia

My maid will go home next Monday, she been with us about 15 months only. She still have contract with us (2 years) but her family got some problem so she need to go home settle it, she wont come back afterward.

So start from next week onward, I got no time to blog and read blog. I must week up early to do the house chore, than need to take care the kids all by myself.

Actually, on Feb she said she wants to go home, but later she calls her family than decided to stay till middle of Oct. By the time, my girls can understand what we want. If without any maid I still can look after them all by myself, but now it very hard to do that.

My girls just know to walk, so need to pay more attention to them. Maybe will send my son to nursery just for the morning section then when he back to home that time can sleep together with my girls.

Hope all the thing can be done by me without any help. I just scare my son will go disturb my MIL to do her work (MIL is a WAHM ‘work at home mom’), she cant help me to look after him.

My main problem is my toddler son, he is a very active child. He got lots of energy to spend. He just need about half to 1 hours nap then can continue his fun till nite about 11pm to 12am.

I’m so sad cause I’m not a good mother. I got no time to spend with my twin daughters all the while. My son he too sticks to me and sometime he dun wan to play with his sisters. He just wan me to play with him and need all my attention to him.

All this while my maid help me to take care my daughters, I just look after them only. Sometime I feel my daughters are not my daughters, they still close to me but I feel like got a gap between them. I feel like that cause I take care of my son all by myself, but my daughters usually with my maid. I just can fully pay attention to them by the time they sleep with me at nite.

Sometime I feel so guilty so I take some time play with my daughters, but my son will go disturb my MIL till she cant do anything. So my MIL will ask him to go find me or call me to bring him away from her.

Any suggestion that the toddler can play together with the baby, so I can have less stress to get my son away from my MIL and I can feel relax when look after them without any help?