A Small Touching Story

I get this e-mail from my friends this evening, after I read it was so touching. It remind me that I had 1 student with almost the same situation, please read the short story first before I tell my story.

A small touching story mainly for professionals...

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.

SON: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?'

DAD: 'Yeah sure, what is it?' replied the man.

SON: 'Daddy, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?'
the man said angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'If you must know, I make Rs.100 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Daddy, may I please borrow Rs.50?'

The father was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs.50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened he door.

'Are you asleep, son?' He asked.

'No daddy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the man.

'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the Rs.50 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you daddy!' He yelled.

Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the father grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Daddy, I have Rs.100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time?


Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.'

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.

Do remember to share that Rs.100 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days.

But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.

How you feel, is it so touching? About my student story, we have reading everyday. This little boy was average boy, he can read if he had revision at home but lately his reading getting poor.

One day, I had reading with him.

1+2mom : Do you read at home?

Boy : *shake his head* nope.

1+2mom : Why didnt do reading at home?

Boy : Mommy watch TV, she have no time to teach me.

1+2mom : *so surprise, this parent ask me to give her son do homework i thought she is a good mom* ask your mommy give you 5 min, just 5 min to teach you.

Boy : *nod his head*ok.

1+2mom : ok, go back your own place.

The next day...

1+2mom : Why you still cannot read?Yesterday night you didnt ask your mommy teach you?

Boy : Mommy said she dun have 5 min for me.

1+2mom : *open eyes big*huh?Your mommy told you dun have 5 min for you?

Boy : yalor, she want to watch TV.

1+2mom : ok,ok, i will call your mommy ask her to teach you. (I didnt call, I dunno how to tell her about it).

From the conversation with the boy, now a day so many parents told us they have no time for their kids. When they back home about 8 or 9 pm, it was so late to accompany the kids do some very short reading. I dunno they will have time to chat with the kids or not, in my mind i think why this parents want to give birth the child but they dun care what they feel and really need.

I wanted to put this short story on my outside noticeboard, when parents-teachers day it can let the parents read while they waiting their turn. It is possible or not to put on this story on the board? Will it feel like show to someone not really take time for thier children?

A useful safety method

I get this e-mail from my very old college, it was a very useful method that can use it at home.

Fantastic Personal Security Idea
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A Simple and Easy Task for our Safety. (tips from Bukit Aman)

Next time you come home for the night and before you put your keys away, think of this :

It's a security alarm system that you probably already have and requires no installation.

Start keeping your car keys next to your bed on the night stand before you go to rest.

If you think someone is trying to get into your house, or if you hear a noise outside your house, just press the alarm button on the remote controller of your car.....

Test it! It should be triggered on almost when you press in
everywhere inside your house and will keep honking until your
battery runs down or until you reset it.

If your car alarm is activated when someone is trying to break in your
house, odds are the burglar or rapist won't stick around.....after a few seconds all the neighbors will be looking out their windows to see who is out there and sure enough the criminal won't want that.

Try yours to make sure it works before you rely on it. Just know that you must press the alarm button again to turn it off.

And remember to carry your keys while walking to your car at the carpark in the evening or while you are alone. The alarm can work the same way there.....

This is something that should really be shared with everyone.

Maybe it could save a life or from a sex abuse.

So put those car keys & remote controller on the night table now!
Or if you're at work, forward this message to your home so that you will remember to do this tonight when you get home. Let the rest of the family know about this too.

And then, forward this to everyone you know.*

Under the light

Do you ever see our Mycard and credit card under the florescent light? That day we went to Petrosains the guy there asks us to try some experiment with the light. At first, he asks us whether we are Malaysian and did we have our Mycard. I’m so scared he will want my card to do something, later he ask us go in that ‘lorong’ that have florescent light to have a try.

It so funny when we try on our Mycard, it really show something that some of us may never know and ever see before. Next to our photo it has another photo beside us. Other that Mycard, different type of credit card it has different type of effect. Like Visa it shows out the bird logo, and Master & American Express it only shows the keywords.

China Doll 小龙女

Do you think if government let the china girl come here be maid will be fine? For my opinion I dun think so because I really scare 1 day my hubby will run away with this ‘china doll’.

You know lar some of the man really cannot ‘tahan’ (stand) those girl with soft and listen type girl close to them, they sure will fall in love with them. Some more those girls from China and they have no problem to communicate us. I saw an article about some of the women family broken because of this kind of girl stay into their house. Their husband were a very nice man, they can change to an evil man just because of this girl stay into their house be a maid.

I’m so pity those women, but my hubby said it sure the women problem till husband will go find other girl. I said dun just point finger to the women when the things happened, sometime the man should be responsibility.

Those ‘china doll’ talk so soft and they need money sure will listen what the man want lar. Nowaday most of our Malaysian women are working, sometime very hard to be a soft soft type girl to pamper husband everyday, right? Somemore most of the china doll are so pretty, skin so fair, very good in pamper people and they can do anything that man ask them to do but I think some of us will not like most of the women will ask hubby help to do house work, etc.

I’m very sure to tell my hubby that I wont want China maid to help us, I’m not they type of pamper girl so I scare those ‘china doll’ will seduce him. After married about 8 years, I know some time man need wife to pamper and concerned them. I notice 1+2dad like that kind of girl to whine him like that day I saw my girls call him with very soft voice “daddy!daddy!”, 1+2dad very happy and melt his hard into it. So I start to learn from my girls, take sometime when just both of us I call him like that.haha..you know what he said? He asks me why today you so ‘hao’, I said cannot ar? He said no ar, and like it wor. I said I want to learn from your daughter that I saw you very happy when your daughters call you like that. You will always said “so sweet” when your girls call you “daddy!daddy!” like that.

Luckily I got 2 daughter can control my hubby..haha..you know if daughter call daddy why he so late home, daddy sure will answer and come back very fast. If the other way round, wife whose call husband I’m sure the wife will get scolding that are she checking him, right? So who said got daughter no good, it also a type of weapon for a women to control husband..kekeke.

Most Collectable Items from Paris

My friend e-mail me these rings sometime ago, i like it so much. If can have 1 for the wedding ring are so great but too bad i already married and my hubby not a rich guy.

Long break blogging

I have to quit blogging quite a long time cause need to prepare the kids exam and their year end concert. I think I’ll blog back when the long term school holiday.

Seeya guys later!!! I’ll keep contact and blog hopping if I got time.

From,
1+2mom

Pity child

I so pity one of my class students. His mother not even cares about him, anything all dump to his father. He is 6 years old now, but he haven’t brush any teeth b4. How we know?? Cause last few month we having teeth check at school, so all the student need to bring their toothbrush and mug to school. The nurse will come and teach them proper way to brush teeth and check their teeth.

The next day we told all the parents to bring their toothbrush, his father told us his son dun had any toothbrush at home. My college asks his father to buy one for him. Wow!! What a parent were they?? They know their kids didn’t brush teeth still dunwan to teach them. I notice this type of parent’s very irresponsibility. A small kind of thing also can’t do it.

Somemore, my college babysits him when he just 5 years old. She told me that he not even know how to chew meat cause his last babysitter just feed him porridge no any rice or meat for him. When meal time he need to take about 2 hours to finish his meal. Now getting better, just need about 1 hour. You know not easy to feed a children eat rice, we need to wait the kids chew and swallow then feed another feed. If porridge very easy, just need to wait they swallow then feed again no need wait for them chew. 1+2dad also very lazy to feed the kids, I said that is not easy job. Somemore I need to feed 3 of them everyday.

He almost 365 days flu, when running nose he not even bother to wipe it off. Sometime we saw it, we will ask him why not ask us take tissue paper for him. He just looks at us. My college told me when meal time he sneezing wont cover his mouth so the dish are full of his yuck!! They teach him so many times but he still does the same.

One more thing, I dunno what his mother do?? Why she want to have kids but dunwan to bother him. On Saturday, she bring her son to my college house for babysit. My college ask him whether he having his breakfast or not (they didn’t include breakfast, just 2 meal). What he told my college was no. My college asks him why not having his breakfast b4 you come and your mommy didn’t buy any bread for you?? What he answer was :” my mommy said no time to buy bread for me cause her college want to go home.” What the hell of this mother said?? Didn’t her son more important then to send a college home?? She can just drop by a bread shop to buy bread, I dun think need to take more then 10 min??

I so pity this kid, he is a very smart kid. If his parents good educate him, I sure his is a grate kid but this irresponsibly parents spoiled him.

Pre-school experiences

Saw a post about the nursery and kindergarten at mumsgather blog. I send my son to nursery because my maid went back to her hometown and I need sometime for my 15 months old twins last year.

Below are some of the question that MG wants to know :

1. When did you register? (ie how many months in advance?)
I register my son to nursery when I want to enroll him to nursery on April. I asked the headmasters that let my son had a trial b4 he enters to the nursery.

2.How old was your kid?
He is just 3 years old when he enter the kiddy.

3. How did you choose the kiddy?
I just went to nearest kiddy to find the nursery that accept 3 years old kid.

4.What is your child's personality and how long did he/she take to settle down?
My son very stick to me cause I’m the only one he face since he born, he need about a week to settle down. I just accompany him about 3 days, and then I let him stay alone after the 4th day. At first he will cry, later he knows you will come and fetch him b4 the school bell ring he will settle down.

5. Are you happy with your choice?
oklar, at least he enjoy and he told me he like the school.

6.Any horror/happy stories to share?
He very happy that his friend celebrate birthday at school and play with his friends.

When my son 3 years old at nursery, they just repeat the word and song everyday so the kids will recognize and remember the word and song. They dun have any exam and homework cause for 3 years old kids they just have fun and meet friends at school. They just do some coloring and painting that’s all.

This year he turns 4 so they start to teach them alphabets and numbers. They sometime have homework but just 1 page of coloring and 1 page of writing only. I like this school 1 thing is they will let the kids read the reading book 1 by 1 for teacher so that the teacher know who can read who cant. They didn’t force them know all the word but at least they learn.

My son very lazy to write properly and colour nicely, I very happy he got improvement and learn many new things at school.

This school will need parents choose the langue when they turn to 5 years old so they can concentrate on the langue you choose, like if you want to let your children enter Chinese primary school they will teach more Chinese. This year they still had 1 lesson of Manderin so the children can get used to it b4 they go on to next year class. They dunwan the children learn so many languages in 1 time, so they will start it on 5 years old.

Fussy parents

On Monday, 1 of the student parents came by complain us that his son writing was so bad. That teacher told me after that, she said his father mother very fussy. This kind of things also wants to complain, somemore not our wrong. They should accompany his son do homework and know why his writing so badly.

Early the year, his writing was quite nice. Dunno why after holiday back his writing was so badly especially Chinese word. I know the Chinese word very hard to write, so I dun expect they write so nicely but this parents very fussy, they said cannot just like that must write properly and nicely.

That teacher also told me that this mother sits at the class about a week to see how the teacher teaches the lessons. That time his son 5 years old, this mother said cannot let his son go home do homework. It should do it at school, teacher should have time for him to finish the work. Actually, the teacher just wants to let the kids get used to have homework b4 they enter to primary school. She just let the kids do half of the work at home.

Some of the mother want the teachers teach their children like at university cause they expect their 4 or 5 years old children know every word that they had learned at school.

I dunno why those mother said they dun have time to teach their children but got time go shopping and dry swimming (play mahjong). 1 of the mother told me that his hubby saw his 6 years old son cried when doing homework, he told his son no need to do wor. I dun think this is the best way to teach a children, it should let the kids rest then do it afterward. Just like my son, I know they very young and no strange to color so much so I just let him do some of it then after his nap I continue let him do if still cant finish I will let him finish after his dinner.

Some of the parents know how to help the kids but some may not like to hear what you said about his children. Parents need to know what gain and lose they want. If want the kids be good so need to suicide the courier, if you think you love your job more..feel sorry to your kids lor.

Visit to Twinsmom house

Last Sunday I brought along my children to visit Maria at Jalan Gasing. I call her few days b4 cause want to taste her cooking..muahaha. It 100% yummy, she make cream cheese fish on tortilla for us but too bad b4 I went to her house I had my breakfast and lunch. Carol and Carrie like it so much, but Carter didnt tried cause he is a picky food very scare to try new thing. 1+2dad fetch us to there and he gone home wait for my call to fetch us again.

When reached her house I call her, she went down to meet us. In front of her MIL house got a little tinny dog, I didn’t realize there got a dog until it bark to my son. Her SIL came out to we just say hi to her then we went up to her house.

I like her back house roof top (transparent), cause she hang her laundry there without direct sunshine and if raining no need care about the laundry will wet or not. She said sometime she already forgot about the laundry still hang there, sometime will leave it overnight at there too.

Tell you all a secret, Maria no look like her in her wedding photos. She just look like a secondary school gal, very very young looking. She very slim (now also slim liao compare last time I saw her), didn’t wear spec.

Annabelle and Isabelle brought my kids to their bedroom to play jump jump on their bed. Maria asked to have her cream cheese fish on tortilla, but I just ate so wait abit longer I tried it. It very nice and but not so crispy cause maybe already cold down quite long.

We chit chat there while the kids play around and watch TV. Later we went down stair to let her MIL saw my twins, and the kids play at her SIL room. I think about 15 min my son wants to go back to Maria house. At about 2 pm, 1+2dad reached and we gone home.

Another funny laugh!!!

Top 10 reasons why we SHOULD buy pirated VCDs

1. Free black plastic bag
You can't get those cool black coloured bags anywhere.The ones sold outsideare too big and they are meantfor the tong sampah.

2. Family bond
Every weekend, when you go to wangsa maju JJ, you can see little kids running to the VCD shop to select their favourite Pokemon cartoon VCD. And then mommy will come along to find her favourite Teresa Teng VCD.Next comes big sister to select her F4 VCD. And lastly, big bro and daddy searching for the latest movies ... and try to eye for some you-know-whatVCD. Anyway, the whole idea is, the pirated VCD shop is like a place for weekend family reunion. When was the last time you saw daddy buying little Billy a VCD in Speedy Video ?

3. Cinema sucks
When you reach the cinema, you'll have to line up for 15 minutes before it's your turn to get the ticket. By then, they tell you ticket sudah habis.So you buy tickets for the next show and have to wait another 3 hours. When the time comes, the ticket usher stops you from bringing nasi lemak and cha-kuay-teow into the hall.So you're forced to line up another 10 minutes in the snack bar. By then, you're already late for the show. Lampu sudah tutup(light is off) when you go in. Oooppss.. terjatuh(fall off) and very one laughs at you. Next,the cinema bores you with 15 minutes of iklan(advertisment). Frankly speaking, I dunno why the government ban 'triple x' VCDs when all the beer commercials in the cinema feature sluts dancing around. Later, your handphone rings and everyone boos you.At last, the show ends but you'll need to beratur(line up) through the smelly exit.After 30 mintues, you notice that your handphone is lost. The only thing good about cinemas is the fact that you can throw kua-chi on the floor.

4. Customer Friendly Sellers
Buying VCDs from the stall is like dining in a luxury restaurant. First, those blond hair sellers will greet you with 'leng-chai'. It's now time to order the meal. If you know what to order,they will search the title for you.But if you're undecided, these fellas will suggest some meals for you.Strangely, all movies (according to them) are nice to watch. When you've finished, here comes the main course. The rectangular box containing all the finest artistic international stuff.(porn?)..And you can bargain too! But when you buy VCDs from Speedy Video, the shopassistants will stand few meters away from you, with their arms tied and eyes alert, thinking that you're another shoplifter.

5. Beli barang buatan Malaysia
The title says it all. No need to say more.

6. You go to the movies...while watching the most suspense part in a love movie....as the guy and girl are about to kiss...all of a sudden, the screen goes into matrix mode. And then it changes to some dull scene. Doesn't this sound familiar? Say thank you to our censorship board for helping us removethe "naughty" parts. You never get this when you buy pirated CDs.

7. 6 years ago, piracy was a minority because of the original CD pricing and contents. 3 years ago, they increased original CD prices by 70% and say it's because of import duties, tax and other crap.While at the same time, the pirated CD prices drop by 50% - 70%.Customers would prefer to buy from a sale right?

8. Piracy helps students to learn new programs at a reduced price cost. If every student is going to spend RM800 just to buy Adobe Photoshop, then Malaysia would lag behind in the computer graphics industry. So in the long run, Malaysia's economic status becomes better with more knowledgeable citizens.

9. As people are willing to spend money on pirated CDs but not that willing to buy original cds, they are circulating the money and helping to increasethe GDP.

10. Pirated VCDs offer the latest movies, even before they are shown in theU.S.! Compare this to original VCDs,where you have to wait for a few months after the movie is first released.

This one also my friend sent to me, just have a laugh!!! But i did agree some of the reason..haha.

Break time - time for a laugh!!

Dear Friends,
I got this from a friend. Have a good laugh!!

Malaysian English vs British English.

Malaysian version is simple, short, concise, straight-to-the-point, effective.
Compare these phrases that Malaysians and Britons use to say the same things.
So, why make things so confusing and complicated?


WHEN GIVING A CUSTOMER BAD NEWS
Britons: I'm sorry, Sir, but we don't seem to have the sweater you want in your size, but if you give me a moment, I can call the other outlets for you.
Malaysians: No Stock.

RETURNING A CALL
Britons: Hello, this is John Smith. Did anyone page for me a few moments ago?
Malaysians: Hallo, who page?

ASKING SOMEONE TO MAKE WAY
Britons: Excuse me, I'd like to get by. Would you please make way?
Malaysians: S-kew me

WHEN SOMEONE OFFERS TO ! PAY
Britons: Hey, put your wallet away, this drink is on me.
Malaysians: No-need, lah.

WHEN ASKING FOR PERMISSION
Britons: Excuse me, but do you think it would be possible for me to enter through this door?
Malaysians: (pointing the door) can ar?

WHEN ENTERTAINING
Britons: Please make yourself right at home.
Malaysians: Don't be shy, lah!

WHEN DOUBTING SOMEONE
Britons: I don't recall you giving me the money.
Malaysians: Where got?

WHEN DECLINING AN OFFER
Britons: I'd prefer not to do that, if you don't mind.
Malaysians: Doe-waaaan!

IN DISAGREEING ON A TOPIC OF DISCUSSION
Britons: Err. Tom, I have to stop you there. I understand where you're coming from, but I really have to disagree with what you said about the issue.
Malaysians: You mad, ah?

WHEN ASKING SOMEONE TO LOWER THEIR VOICE
Britons: Excuse me, but could you please ! lower your voice, I'm trying to concentrate over here.
Malaysians: Shaddap lah!

WHEN ASKING SOMEONE IF HE/SHE KNOWS YOU
Britons: Excuse me, but I noticed you staring at me for some time. Do I know you?
Malaysians: See what, see what!?

WHEN ASSESSING A TIGHT SITUATION
Britons: We seem to be in a bit of a predicament at the moment.
Malaysians: Die-lah!!!

WHEN TRYING TO FIND OUT WHAT HAD HAPPENED
Britons: Will someone tell me what has just happened?
Malaysians: Wat happen Why laidat??? ADUI!!! (jumping to conclusion)

WHEN SOME ONE DID SOMETHING WRONG
Britons: This isn't the way to do it here let me show you.
Malaysians: Hoi!!!U pig ar laidat also doe no how to do!!!!

Change New Template

I had changed my old blog template to new template, it very hard to found 1 that i like. It took me few days to find a template but when i found it need to upload to my blog, it didnt work.

Yesterday at nite about 11pm, i msn Jason ask him to help. He is the one that when i had problem in my blog i will think of him. He is very polite guy, when ever i ask him do things he sure say " no problem!!".Thankz alot Jason, can let my blog had a new cloth.

For my old template, i kept it for about a year. It time to change a new look. Any comment about the new template??

Friends are every where

One of my friend ask me a question when she visit me sometime ago, she said : “ you just stay at home, will you still updated yourself??” Then, I answered her: “sure, I always surf net and read newspaper sure now what happened now a day and what new product coming up.”

Many ppl though we are SAHM sure just know to take care the kids and do house work but they didn’t know now got internet ler, can get many info from the net and now got blog too.

I meet so many new friends since I start join the MMB in the internet, then later blogging. I still can meet new friend even though I just stay at home, so happy when read the good new from other blogger and will sad with the blogger when get the bad news.

I like to have many friends, can chat can exchange the idea when stuck in the problem. But, maybe Malaysian all is so selfish so we didn’t have chance to meet the neighbors. Yes, we move to this house since 5 years ago but we just meet few neighbors only. One is my left side which are a Malay family and the other is opposite my house which are an old man and his non married daughter stay together with 4 doggie (now left 2 cause another 2 was died).

I still keep in touch with my old friends and ex-colleague with e-mail and sometime we call each other to chat, but really no time to chat for long cause the kids are around call for mummy or fight for the food and toys.

Which part of baby you like the most??

I like baby face, they look very cute when the baby fat fat.. seem like to pinch the face. Like my son now he is 3 years old I still like to kiss his face very hard..haha..sometime he pushes me away.

The other part is hand and leg. Did you notice that baby leg likes the part of lotus so cute and like to bit it?

Last time I saw a ‘siao’ lady pinch a baby face till red color, but the poor baby seems like it so much..hehe..maybe that baby oledi get used to it.

I like to look at my gals face cause they are very small and cute. One of my friend she every time visit me sure said my gals face so so so small, she 1st time saw baby face so small like my gals.

Sometime I look at other baby that smaller then my gals (which sleep facing the ceiling), they seem bigger then them cause they face so big. (my gals sleep tummy facing the bed, so they head like ‘American football’..haha.)

How about you??

How to have twins?

About this title, twinsmom and angeline blog about it and I
also 1 of the twins mom so let me talk about my experience.

Being a mother of twins, the most common and often asked question
is:
“Was because you or your husband family has twins in the history?” (twinsmom i copy you..hehe)

Yes. 1+2dad’s family got history. His aunties are a pair of twins. B4 I married I told 1+2dad hope we can get a pair of twins which are 1 gal
and 1 boy so I can close shop early..hehe. He said not so easy lar.

I married at age 23 years old and hope to get a baby next year which
was a dragon year baby so can same as us (me and 1+2dad are
same age), but my dream wont come true.

We wait about 1 year plus still dun have any baby and waist a lot of pregnancy test tube. Later we decided to see doctor and this doctor is recommended by 1+2dad ex-boss wife (she cant pregnant about
10 years and see this doctor get pregnant in about 1 year).We see this doctor about half a year than I get pregnant, but not twins.

The second pregnancy is abit surprise cause we just let it be. I wish I
finish my job b4 age 30 years old so we can have baby fast and I didn’t think i can get twins in the 2nd pregnancy cause my son and the twins just 1 year gap. When the time we know is twins and need to arrange a maid to help us. I cant handle 1 toddler (that time he just 18 months) and a pair of twins baby in the same time.

June 2003 (week 10)
Should be go back check up in 4 weeks time but my morning sick very bad so go back in the 3rd week. Doctor scan and let us know it was a twins and cause me very bad morning sick. I had to hang drip at the clinic and 1+2dad spoilt his all arrangement when he know I get a pair of twins. (he decided to order a new car, luckily didn’t can save the money for the gals)

December 2003 (week 32)
I admit to hospital about 5 days because my stomach sometime abit hard and discharge some brownish. I celebrate my charismas at hospital that year. Go home about 1 week admit to hospital again.

Jan 2004(week 35)
This time baby need to come out early, cause the water in the water beg suddenly increase so much and scare the baby will drink the water. Doctor decided to do c-sec 2 days later. (cause of ‘T’ too needs to do c-sec).

1.08pm Carol reach the world with 1.48 kgs
1.09pm Carrie follow then with 1.75kgs

These 2 gals want to come out early to get ‘ang paw’ (my due is during Chinese New Year). I though I will lose Carrie because her lung not working properly so she need the ventilator to help her breath. Luckily she ok in the 3rd day, no need the ventilator but she got jaunties (for normal baby the level is ok but for premature baby she need to keep under the light).

I go see them at the 4th day, I nearly want to cry when I saw them. 1+2dad told me the 1st two day the gals body all with tube lagi kelian, he cant stay there too long cause he also want to cry. 1+2dad dint told me anything about the gal’s condition just let me know the twin I in the incubator and the twin II with ventilator and abit dangerous. He didn’t let me know how dangerous she and I are just c-sec think of maybe will lost one of them. (I’m do idiot, should think of the good side mar)

Now saw them very healthy, I’m so lucky still got 2 of them with me.




left : Carol with 1.48kgs and height 40cm
right : Carrie with 1.75kgs and height 47cm






left : Carrie with 8.8kgs
right : Carol with 8.6kgs
*They always got about 200g difference*

Who’s False?

Now a day many young girls get pregnant b4 married, are this human suck or moral suck?? Refer to old old day, where got so many this type of case will happen.

This girls very young get pregnant and the father dun have any economy support, how they alive. They sure will fight about the money every month, who to take care the baby?

Cause they still young dun have enough fun then got family liao, both of them sure argue who to go out with friend who to stay at home to take care the child.

One of them is my younger sister, she married on age of 19 yo. After married within a year we hear that she argue with her husband about the financial. Her husband changes so many jobs, every job he work on it within a month. My sis so headache about her husband dunwan find a job work properly.

Our family very headache about her, and we just give her advice that this husband she like so much and dunwan play safe till got baby now please dun blame so much. This husband even though we didn’t saw b4 then she got married liao. She just break with her boyfriend that we know about a month after that she told us she pregnant liao.

She got so many problems with her husband but they still dunwan play safe till got another baby. They still got financial problem, if got another baby they will surfer so much but she cant let this baby go.

For my opinion, girls should be like a piece of paper b4 married. I know some of the guy dun mine but will they really dun mine about his wife not so clean?? I dun think so. Maybe few years later when the time got arguing will it be a part of the reason?

Guys maybe can have sex with girlfriend but if wife they sure want the clean one lar. I dunno how about the guy opinion?

Maid back to Indonesia

My maid will go home next Monday, she been with us about 15 months only. She still have contract with us (2 years) but her family got some problem so she need to go home settle it, she wont come back afterward.

So start from next week onward, I got no time to blog and read blog. I must week up early to do the house chore, than need to take care the kids all by myself.

Actually, on Feb she said she wants to go home, but later she calls her family than decided to stay till middle of Oct. By the time, my girls can understand what we want. If without any maid I still can look after them all by myself, but now it very hard to do that.

My girls just know to walk, so need to pay more attention to them. Maybe will send my son to nursery just for the morning section then when he back to home that time can sleep together with my girls.

Hope all the thing can be done by me without any help. I just scare my son will go disturb my MIL to do her work (MIL is a WAHM ‘work at home mom’), she cant help me to look after him.

My main problem is my toddler son, he is a very active child. He got lots of energy to spend. He just need about half to 1 hours nap then can continue his fun till nite about 11pm to 12am.

I’m so sad cause I’m not a good mother. I got no time to spend with my twin daughters all the while. My son he too sticks to me and sometime he dun wan to play with his sisters. He just wan me to play with him and need all my attention to him.

All this while my maid help me to take care my daughters, I just look after them only. Sometime I feel my daughters are not my daughters, they still close to me but I feel like got a gap between them. I feel like that cause I take care of my son all by myself, but my daughters usually with my maid. I just can fully pay attention to them by the time they sleep with me at nite.

Sometime I feel so guilty so I take some time play with my daughters, but my son will go disturb my MIL till she cant do anything. So my MIL will ask him to go find me or call me to bring him away from her.

Any suggestion that the toddler can play together with the baby, so I can have less stress to get my son away from my MIL and I can feel relax when look after them without any help?

The Golden Bread

Refer to Loc Kee he blog about the Golden Bread shop, we try it on Saturday nite. It really a golden bread, we wait about an hour then can taste it.

Last Saturday, 1+2dad back from Shanghai and reach home about 10.45pm by cab. So me and my son decided to accompany this poor daddy go have his dinner (my girls slept liao). My son said wants eat yau za guai so we go for this Golden Bread at SS 2 branch to taste it.

We reach there about 11pm quite many ppl there and there have up stair and down stair, so we get a sit at down stair cause I told 1+2dad we need pay money first then can get the food better sit down stair so we can get it faster.

The waitress pass us the menu and a piece of paper with the pencil then walk away, I’m not so mad cause oledi know this type of service. We look at the menu and choose our food.

1+2mom order : yau za guai with kaya (RM 1.80)
1+2dad order : spaghetti (RM 5.80) and a glass of juice dunno what name liao (RM 5.50)
Toddler order : yau za guai with chocolate (RM1.80) and a cup of hot Milo (RM 2.50)

The drinks come first. WTF ! This Milo can call Milo ar? I make better then them, it just a size of a cup of coffee only but the Milo I think they just put 1 teaspoon cant taste the Milo and the dunno what name of the drink really very small cup.

Nvm, we wait for the other food. Waiting, waiting the spaghetti come and 1+2dad finish the spaghetti the yao za guai still not yet come.

We waiting about 30 min my son ask me where is he yao za guai? I told him : “you take this paper go ask that jie jie where is your yau za guai, ok?” My son didn’t answer me but he still sit on his place.

About 20 min later, finally the yau za guai came so we fast fast finish our food then rush home cause I scare my girls will wakeup to find me.

1+2dad dun dare to order the other drink cause it really wait for so long and we scare they follow the queue then dunno wait for how long to get the other drink.

This is the first time and the last time I go for their food! It damn expensive and not worth to eat, some more wasting time to eat the not so special yao za guai. The yau za guai with kaya cost RM 1.80/pc 1+2dad said can buy a cup of home made kaya put on it also not cost so much wor.

I highly recommend dun go for a try too. You can make it at home, they just put some jam on the yau za guai only. The special yau za guai very expensive and the potion very small, 2 or 3 bit no more liao and it cost RM 4 and above.

Haiz..tomoro 1+2dad wanna outstation again. This time he goes to Sandakan for 2 days 1 nite, he will be back on Wednesday. So sinz..end of this month maybe will go to Jakarta too.

My sis little puppy

Last Saturday went back to my father house and get some pic of my sis little puppy.The next day afternoon, 3 out of 4 was sending to the new owner.

Wanna blog about her doggie but dunno when the puppies were born,the sex and the name. So I call my middle sis to ask her about her puppy.

1+2mom : “wei, leng lui sorry to bother you so late.
Just wanna ask about your puppy.”
Sister : “why you wanna know about my puppy?”

1+2mom : “cause I wanna put your little puppy pic on my web lor.
Can show off mah.”
Sister : “ok,ok, what you wanna know?”

1+2mom : “how many months was your puppy now?”
Sister : “they about 7+ weeks.”

1+2mom : “how many male and female are they?”
Sister : “they all female.”

1+2mom : “errrr..what else can you tell me?”
Sister : “their type is calling Miniature Schnauzer.”
Sister : “their name is Louie,Twyekle,Carolbelle and Cloe.”
Sister : “their mother call Abbe and father call……… bla bla bla…”*1+2mom buzy jog down the note*
1+2mom : “ok,ok, enough liao. Thank you ar sis. Bye Bye.”

That all about my sis doggie, some more their grandparents are from Taiwan ler.

Below is my sis little puppy, very cute!