Let me show you

CARRIE : Wah!!So shoik to sit like this..hehehe.




CARRIE : I come down let you try lar.




CAROL : Wei..how you sit inside ar?? Why i cant wan??




CARRIE : You go a side lar.. let me show you.




CARRIE : You up like this then like this...bla bla bla.
CAROL : Dunno what are you talking about?? I try myself.

Additional :



They always have the same sleeping style :P

Toddler Birthday Party at school

This were some of the photos taken during his school birthday party, just sing a song and blow the candle. He is very happy about this party.

We bring him and the girls to National Zoo on last Sunday, they enjoy the trip but just abit hot that day.

We reach there about 10.30am and spend about 2 to 3 hours there. Carrie slap on half way we walking around the Zoo, so we just 4 of us take photo only.

B4 we when home, 1+2dad bought them a present - it were wind mail. The big one for the big kor kor and the small one are for the 2 mei mei. The wind mail we didn’t take photo yet but the big kor kor one was spoil oledi. He take out all the wing, so cant show you all his present.




This is his birthday cake, the kitty cat was chosen by toddler.




These are his classmate, but the other one was absent.




This one with his class teacher.




Toddler was cutting the cake.

First time be a mother (Part II)

Yesterday was my son 3 years old birthday. Just clip an eyes the time past so fast and I oledi be a mother for 3 years liao.

Continue the story from Part I , when I reach the hospital my hubby drop by me at lobby so I can wait him to park his car (car park quite far). The girl sit in frond of the information counter saw me sit on sofa so she comes to me,

girl : are you ok?
1+2mom : yea.. need to go labor wad cause I think the baby wanna come out today *smile*

girl :I bring you go labor wad.
1+2mom : where izzit ar? I’m waiting for my hubby.

girl : I scare the baby will come out any minute, I bring you to labor wad first then I will let your hubby know.
1+2mom : errrrr.. ok lar! *standing up wanted to follow the girl*

girl : arrr.. I go ask the roller chair first.
1+2mom : no need, I can walk.

girl : no! no! no! I scare you when contraction you will fell off, just wait a minute.
1+2mom : errrr. Ok! Ok! *sit back the sofa and wait*

The roller chair is coming and I been push to the labor wad. Later I saw my hubby coming and he go register and pay the deposit, and I waiting him at the delivery wad.

At wad, I change the hospital provided cloth and lay on the bed wait. That time the contraction quite often and very pain till my back site also pain. My hubby back and I told him,

1+2mom : when the time I deliver baby, you dun go ar! I very scare ler, now very pain.
1+2dad : you said dun want me to accompany you.

1+2mom : aiya.. the ppl said after husband saw wife delivery then next time dun dare to touch his wife mar, now I dun care lor..arrrrr ! omg very pain.
1+2dad : ok! Ok! I will accompany you. Are you ok?

1+2mom : you saw me ok or not? Very pain lar, I dun want have baby anymore. This is the last one.arrrrr..
1+2dad : *smilling*

Suddenly I heard the next door lady scream so loud and then heard the baby cry so loud too, the nurse came and check me I ask her

1+2mom : you know what sex is that baby?
Nurse : dunno?

1+2mom : izzit is her first baby?
Nurse : nope.This is her second baby.

1+2mom : wah! Second baby also scream so loud ar? Charm lor my one is the first one sure louder then her lor.
Nurse : hehe.. doctor recommends you take epidural? It good to take epidural so you can rest more and not pain at all.

1+2mom : then I want to take lor.
Nurse : sure.

Then the nurse on and off check my how many centimeters open, this check also killing me very pain. Every time the nurse checks me I must pull my body up, she said like this cant check ler. Aiya.. what to do very pain mar!

At about 12.30pm, doctor put the epidural so I can really rest, it dun has felling about the contraction and my hubby went back to his office to do some job. His ask me when start, call him wor. What to do, he got important thing to do if I said the baby won wait you ar so you cannot go ar. But luckily the baby not come out so early, my hubby back and doctor is here but baby not ready come out yet. Doctor told me if I were you I will go to sleep lor. Wow! Me and hubby got permition to sleep, so both of us start sleeping (me at bed hubby at chair).

At about 7 pm, doctor came in and said can start delivery liao. So 2 nurses came in and prepare all the stuff and start about 7.10 pm.

The nurse A call me to breath in and start to push when she know the contraction come.

1st time fail cause I breath out all the air when I start push, the nurse B said you must keep the breath and push like going poo.

2nd time fail also and wait again till 3rd time I can push out the baby head but I push too hard till I pengsan in few second but suddenly I heard nurse call me push again the head came out liao so the sound give me awake so I breath in and keep the breath and finally push the baby out.

After baby come out I close my eye and have a rest but suddenly I feel something hot on top of my body so I open my eye and saw a little red baby on it with one eye open look at me, by the time I very happy to see him so health.

The doctor continue doing his job and the nurse bring the baby go out and about few minute 1+2dad carry the baby come in and he told me that the nurse teach he how to hold the baby. He brings the baby to me and saw his little hand moving here and there. He starts crying maybe looking for mommy nen nen?? 1+2dad carry him away and nurse said want to bring him go bath. She will bring the baby to wad when I in wad later on.

My family and 1+2dad family all come to see this tiny little guy after me when to the wad. He looks so smart, his eye rolling around to see us.

About 11 something they all gone home and about 12.15 am I start my breastfeeding journey till his 6 month old.

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY LITTLE DARLING !!!"

Toddler Birthday

Next Monday (2nd May) is my son 3 years old birthday, tomorrow will bring a birthday cake to celebrate with his new classmate at school.

Just now about 8.30pm we brought him to King’s bought a chocolate birthday cake with Kitty cat candy add on (this cartoon he choose himself).

This few days he very excited about his birthday, everyday ask 1+2dad go and buy the birthday cake. Just now b4 sleep he said tomorrow go school got birthday cake and blow the candle so he want sleep early.

He like to blow the candle and celebrate birthday very much, at other ppl birthday party he sure wants to blow the candle by himself once again after the birthday girl/boy had blow the candle. hehehe..very the paiseh ler.

This Sunday not yet had any idea where to bring him go, maybe go Zoo or bird park see how first. But we sure will celebrate with him once again in his actual birthday.

Claver Boy

Yesterday is he fifth day without mommy at school, he done very well job.

Yesterday morning at car, he still said dunwan go school.

Toddler : “mommy I dunwan go school.” *with crying face*
Mommy : “mommy will come and get you back when school over.”

Toddler : “mommy I dunwan go school.”
Mommy : “mommy want to go home see mei mei, mei mei cry at home want mommy.”

Toddler *thinking and blink his eyes* : “mommy go home see mei mei, afterward come and fetch boy boy.”
Mommy *I dunno why he suddenly says like that but I’m very happy to hear that* : “wah..cleaver boy.”

When he reach school he follow the teacher go to class, he say bye bye to me.

I promise him will bring him back so I go and fetch him. (cause the day before yesterday my IL go and fetch him, when he back from school to hug me and cried said mommy didn’t go school fetch him. Feel very sorry to hear that, from this case I know must keep promise to the kids).

He is happy to see me and didn’t cry anymore, and teacher said he did done very well job. I’m so happy to hear that and very proud of him, he is very good and claver boy.

That nite, he watches VCD next door and I pamper my daughters sleep. He open the door and said he want oioi (in hokian mean sleep) tomorrow go school, but today is public holiday so I told him tomorrow no school then one more day can go school.

This morning he weak up about 8.15 am and told me he want to go school. I told him again today no school, this is a holiday all kor kor jie jie no go to school. I think he like to go school very much, let me scare of few day dunno how to persuade him go to school.

Note : Yesterday blogspot down so I cant post up this post so the date will have some changes.

Dream Lover

Everyone sure got his/her dream lover, are your dream lover match with your real spouse? What did you expect your dream lover look like? Please share with us.

Mine dream lover is non smoker, alcohol drinker and gambler. I dun care what he look like but must hardworking to have better life for our family. My dream lover was appearing that was my 1+2dad.

He cares about me and loves me so much. He hardworking hope our family have a better life.

He dun like ppl smoke but has to smile the smoke from his boss, customer and friends. He drinks alcohol but not like kaki botol. He also forces to drink so much cause of business entertainment which is needed to give face to customer. Sometime in dinner also need to drink cause friends call. About the gambling, he just play when CNY. If go Genting casino, he just use RM 200 as base if all lose he will stop and if win about RM 100 to 200 he will also stop playing.

Will you disappoint if you’re another one was not as your dream lover?

First day without mummy at school

Below is my son saying out with his hard, I just type it out on behalf of him.

Today was my third day to nursery, also the first day without mummy accompany me. The first 2 day were just fun and like this school very much, cant wait till the next day morning.

But today, it totally difference form the last 2 days. Mummy just went home and put me in this stranger place without her accompany me. I just start cried when mummy walk out from the class and teacher just catch me and wont let me follow my mummy go home.

Teacher persuades me give me some cookies and let me play outside the classroom. Sometime I join back the class and sometime I just miss my mummy and daddy then I will start cried again. Teacher persuades me again and the kakak there also accompany me to play at outside playground.

Wait..wait..wait till teacher bring all of us waiting mummy at the front door. I saw my mummy and I start cried again, I said bye bye to teacher and friends. Teacher asks me whether tomorrow want to come again I nod my head.

I dunno why I nod my head but I really dunwan go to school again. Tonite must tell mummy I dunwan go to school, I dunwan go kor kor jie jie there tomorrow.

Just now b4 bed, I told mummy I dunwan go school. Mummy asks me why? I told her I want mummy stay with me at school but mummy said all kor kor jie jie there also dun have mummy stay with them, they mummy will get them when school over.

I keep telling mummy dunwan go school, mummy said I naughty cause I always throw things, bit mei mei and dunwan hear mummy say. I told her I dunwan naughty, I dunwan throw things and I dunwan bit mei mei. I will keep all the things and I will listen what mummy tell me. I wont be naughty anymore so mummy wont send me to school again.

Mummy said :
Poor litter darling! Mummy has no choice but have to send you to school. Your daddy wants you to learn something new at the school. I know you got stress till went back from school told me that your stomach pain but just want us to pay attention to you, and you so manja us. If next year start school you will also like that, mummy has to give you go to school earlier cause teacher can pay more attention to you cause just you the only one new at there. Poor darling, mummy not dumps you at school but will pick you up after school over. Maybe let you try few more days then daddy mummy will decide whether give you continue or not. Be patient, just few more days.

Who’s False?

Now a day many young girls get pregnant b4 married, are this human suck or moral suck?? Refer to old old day, where got so many this type of case will happen.

This girls very young get pregnant and the father dun have any economy support, how they alive. They sure will fight about the money every month, who to take care the baby?

Cause they still young dun have enough fun then got family liao, both of them sure argue who to go out with friend who to stay at home to take care the child.

One of them is my younger sister, she married on age of 19 yo. After married within a year we hear that she argue with her husband about the financial. Her husband changes so many jobs, every job he work on it within a month. My sis so headache about her husband dunwan find a job work properly.

Our family very headache about her, and we just give her advice that this husband she like so much and dunwan play safe till got baby now please dun blame so much. This husband even though we didn’t saw b4 then she got married liao. She just break with her boyfriend that we know about a month after that she told us she pregnant liao.

She got so many problems with her husband but they still dunwan play safe till got another baby. They still got financial problem, if got another baby they will surfer so much but she cant let this baby go.

For my opinion, girls should be like a piece of paper b4 married. I know some of the guy dun mine but will they really dun mine about his wife not so clean?? I dun think so. Maybe few years later when the time got arguing will it be a part of the reason?

Guys maybe can have sex with girlfriend but if wife they sure want the clean one lar. I dunno how about the guy opinion?

Maid back to Indonesia

My maid will go home next Monday, she been with us about 15 months only. She still have contract with us (2 years) but her family got some problem so she need to go home settle it, she wont come back afterward.

So start from next week onward, I got no time to blog and read blog. I must week up early to do the house chore, than need to take care the kids all by myself.

Actually, on Feb she said she wants to go home, but later she calls her family than decided to stay till middle of Oct. By the time, my girls can understand what we want. If without any maid I still can look after them all by myself, but now it very hard to do that.

My girls just know to walk, so need to pay more attention to them. Maybe will send my son to nursery just for the morning section then when he back to home that time can sleep together with my girls.

Hope all the thing can be done by me without any help. I just scare my son will go disturb my MIL to do her work (MIL is a WAHM ‘work at home mom’), she cant help me to look after him.

My main problem is my toddler son, he is a very active child. He got lots of energy to spend. He just need about half to 1 hours nap then can continue his fun till nite about 11pm to 12am.

I’m so sad cause I’m not a good mother. I got no time to spend with my twin daughters all the while. My son he too sticks to me and sometime he dun wan to play with his sisters. He just wan me to play with him and need all my attention to him.

All this while my maid help me to take care my daughters, I just look after them only. Sometime I feel my daughters are not my daughters, they still close to me but I feel like got a gap between them. I feel like that cause I take care of my son all by myself, but my daughters usually with my maid. I just can fully pay attention to them by the time they sleep with me at nite.

Sometime I feel so guilty so I take some time play with my daughters, but my son will go disturb my MIL till she cant do anything. So my MIL will ask him to go find me or call me to bring him away from her.

Any suggestion that the toddler can play together with the baby, so I can have less stress to get my son away from my MIL and I can feel relax when look after them without any help?

The Golden Bread

Refer to Loc Kee he blog about the Golden Bread shop, we try it on Saturday nite. It really a golden bread, we wait about an hour then can taste it.

Last Saturday, 1+2dad back from Shanghai and reach home about 10.45pm by cab. So me and my son decided to accompany this poor daddy go have his dinner (my girls slept liao). My son said wants eat yau za guai so we go for this Golden Bread at SS 2 branch to taste it.

We reach there about 11pm quite many ppl there and there have up stair and down stair, so we get a sit at down stair cause I told 1+2dad we need pay money first then can get the food better sit down stair so we can get it faster.

The waitress pass us the menu and a piece of paper with the pencil then walk away, I’m not so mad cause oledi know this type of service. We look at the menu and choose our food.

1+2mom order : yau za guai with kaya (RM 1.80)
1+2dad order : spaghetti (RM 5.80) and a glass of juice dunno what name liao (RM 5.50)
Toddler order : yau za guai with chocolate (RM1.80) and a cup of hot Milo (RM 2.50)

The drinks come first. WTF ! This Milo can call Milo ar? I make better then them, it just a size of a cup of coffee only but the Milo I think they just put 1 teaspoon cant taste the Milo and the dunno what name of the drink really very small cup.

Nvm, we wait for the other food. Waiting, waiting the spaghetti come and 1+2dad finish the spaghetti the yao za guai still not yet come.

We waiting about 30 min my son ask me where is he yao za guai? I told him : “you take this paper go ask that jie jie where is your yau za guai, ok?” My son didn’t answer me but he still sit on his place.

About 20 min later, finally the yau za guai came so we fast fast finish our food then rush home cause I scare my girls will wakeup to find me.

1+2dad dun dare to order the other drink cause it really wait for so long and we scare they follow the queue then dunno wait for how long to get the other drink.

This is the first time and the last time I go for their food! It damn expensive and not worth to eat, some more wasting time to eat the not so special yao za guai. The yau za guai with kaya cost RM 1.80/pc 1+2dad said can buy a cup of home made kaya put on it also not cost so much wor.

I highly recommend dun go for a try too. You can make it at home, they just put some jam on the yau za guai only. The special yau za guai very expensive and the potion very small, 2 or 3 bit no more liao and it cost RM 4 and above.

Haiz..tomoro 1+2dad wanna outstation again. This time he goes to Sandakan for 2 days 1 nite, he will be back on Wednesday. So sinz..end of this month maybe will go to Jakarta too.

Toddler sometime so good to parents

My toddler sometime so good to us, let see the conversation below :

1+2dad : “boy, when we go shopping daddy buy toys for you ok?”
Toddler : “daddy dunwan buy toys, house got soooo many toys.”

1+2dad: “wah..boy boy so cleaver. You really dunwan daddy buys toys for you?”
Toddler : “daddy dunwan buy toys, afterward..afterward daddy no money buy McD (Mcdonald).”

1+2dad & 1+2mom*drop their specs* : “I though you so cleaver, dunwan play toys dunno you love McD very much.”
Toddler : “hehehehe..McD also got toys mar.”

1+2dad & 1+2mom *roll their eyes*

Sometime he so cute,

1+2mom : “boy, please dun swing the toys, afterward will hit mei mei.”
Toddler still doing pretend didn’t hear what mommy said.

1+2mom *using loud voice* : “boy, boy, please dun do it again, if not mommy take cane here.”
Toddler : “mommy dun take cane ar.”

1+2mom : “ok, you dunwan mommy bit you then you dun do that again.”
Toddler *with smiling face*: “mommy dun bit boy boy, afterward boy boy bit you ar.”

Other family member smile until wanna fall on the floor liao, 1+2mom face oledi dark.

Another time, toddler run down stair told maid.

Toddler : “kakak, you see boy boy so naughty this poils (spoil) liao.”
He shows the water color to maid, its break into 2 cause inside dry up easily break.

Kakak *smile* : “hehe,why spoil where is mommy?”
Toddler : “boy boy naughty lor.”

Kakak : “afterward mommy come and bit you.”
Toddler : “mommy up stair vacuum.”

Hehehe, sometime he talks so funny. You dunno want to angry him or wanna smile with him.

My sis little puppy

Last Saturday went back to my father house and get some pic of my sis little puppy.The next day afternoon, 3 out of 4 was sending to the new owner.

Wanna blog about her doggie but dunno when the puppies were born,the sex and the name. So I call my middle sis to ask her about her puppy.

1+2mom : “wei, leng lui sorry to bother you so late.
Just wanna ask about your puppy.”
Sister : “why you wanna know about my puppy?”

1+2mom : “cause I wanna put your little puppy pic on my web lor.
Can show off mah.”
Sister : “ok,ok, what you wanna know?”

1+2mom : “how many months was your puppy now?”
Sister : “they about 7+ weeks.”

1+2mom : “how many male and female are they?”
Sister : “they all female.”

1+2mom : “errrr..what else can you tell me?”
Sister : “their type is calling Miniature Schnauzer.”
Sister : “their name is Louie,Twyekle,Carolbelle and Cloe.”
Sister : “their mother call Abbe and father call……… bla bla bla…”*1+2mom buzy jog down the note*
1+2mom : “ok,ok, enough liao. Thank you ar sis. Bye Bye.”

That all about my sis doggie, some more their grandparents are from Taiwan ler.

Below is my sis little puppy, very cute!

Going Nap

Once upon an afternoon, toddler sitting at the bed watching his favorite VCD.

It’s time to nap,

1+2mom : “boy, its time to sleep.”
Toddler : “dunwan, I want to see cat cat.” *point to the tv*

1+2mom : “afterward you weakup mommy play again, ok?”
Toddler : “dunwan, I want see cat cat.” *start to cry*

1+2mom : “ok, ok, this one finish we go oi oi(sleep in hokien) ok?”
Toddler : *with his happy face and nod his head*

Few min later,

Toddler : “mommy, mommy, come come.”
1+2mom : “yes, boy.”

Toddler : “mommy, I want nian nian (milk) oi oi.”
1+2mom : “you really want nian nian oi oi?”

Toddler : *nod his head*
Toddler : “I want put milo.”
1+2mom : “ok, ok.”

1+2mom happy and go make milk for her toddler. She happy cause her son want to go oi oi by himself and no need her to call sooooooo many time then he go nap.

After 1+2mom make the milk and take to her toddler.

1+2mom : “boy, come go nian nian oi oi lor.”
Toddler : “I want drink nian nian here.” (at 1+2mom ILs room, cause the only room got vcd player)

1+2mom : “dunwan. You drink nian nian here, you dunwan go oi oi liao.”
Toddler : “I want see cat cat.”

1+2mom : *in hard* what lar, make me so happy though you want go oi oi. You very cleaver bluff me ar.

1+2mom : “finish nian nian go oi oi.” *start mad*
Toddler : *nod his head*
Toddler : “mommy, I want pillow.”

1+2mom : “aiya, you want so many thing hor. Go drink nian nian at your room, come.”
Toddler : “I want nian nian here.”

1+2mom : “oklar oklar, mommy go take pillow, wait.”
Toddler : *make the evil laugh*

1+2mom : *I’m the stupid mother, give the son play around. #$*&^%#*

It happens everyday now and on, dunno when will stop. Sometime the toddler will drive you crazy.

Doraemon is here

Just back from Sunway Pyramid for the Doraemon live in Malaysia, my son very enjoys the show. Actually the Doraemon just have a dance and take photo with the children. My son love Doraemon very much, he got the entire Doraemon movie at home and must saw that vcd once a day.

We arrived at Sunway Pyramid about 12 pm, the parking lot quite free maybe it still early. We have our breakfast and lunch at McDonald, my son is playing around at the playground there.

About an hour later, we been to Toy City have a walk. Later we go to the Family Entertainment Park there have a look, we saw few girls playing the ParaParaDance there.

About 45 min more, we go to the stage and wait the show start. While we were waiting, they give out some balloons for the children. We get 3 of it, hehe.. I got 3 children mar!

2pm sharp, the show start! They playing the Doraemon song title and the Doraemon slowly walk to the stage and give us a dance. After that, he takes photo with the children one by one. This poor guy in the Doraemon just stay there about 15 min then he gone, really very hard to be a Doraemon. You can see the photo later, cause my hubby using the other pc(mine one dun have that program, will ask him to set up for me) so I cant download the photo to the computer.

Finally got the photo here.

Wedding photos

As some of the blogger request, I would like to post some other pose of my wedding photos. This is the last, I wont post some more cause scare no more mommies come to my blog liao. I will cry very sad lor :P

"SORRY FOR THAT BECAUSE OF SOME REASON ALL THE PHOTOS MUST PULL DOWN!"

Pass “me” and Present “me”

Think very long times dunno whether want to post my photos to the blog or not? Very shy to show you all my photos cause much difference from the pass and now (for me and my hubby said).

After got my son, my weight get higher and higher, gain few kgs from the pass. Izzit look very young then my actual age? Many ppl said I’m just look like student and some said me and my son were brother and sister..hehehe.. pai seh (shy) !

"SORRY FOR THAT BECAUSE OF SOME REASON ALL THE PHOTOS MUST PULL DOWN!"

Choose Love

So many ppl like to ask me whether I will choose love between my kids. My answer is I wont ! Cause all of them need me, I cant choose to love either one only and all of them are my children. As a parents shouldnt choose love, if the parents choose love, their kids wont be happy ever after.

My ILs also ask me the same questions, I gave the same answer to her. Why they ask such question? Izzit mother will choose to love one kid only, if yes why she don’t just have one child then get other?

I love all my kids, they are unique no one can replace the other one. They had difference character, reacting, talking, moving and ect..

Between my kid who are snatch the other toy I wont bother it is elder or younger I sure will ask back the toy and give back to whom just playing that toys. I will let the other party know that snatching is a bad habit and should ask b4 you take from the other or wait you turn.

I know my twins still young but they will understand if you repeat and repeat to tell them. My son too, if his sister snatch his toy he will shout for my help and I will get it back to him and if many there I will ask him to share with his sisters. For my girls, they sure used cry to get my attention lar, so I will told my son to give back the toy to her and wait his turn to play.

I know sometime kids will fight, but after that they can play together and happy. If you ask my son whether he want his sisters to give other ppl, he sure will protect his sisters that no one can get from him. For example, if I tell my son ”mommy will leave mei mei at gong gong house, can or not?” he sure will answer with crying face “dunwan, mommy go kelly(carry) mei mei!” Even though they always fight but they love each other, if one missing the other will find. My son always likes to ask where Carol or Carrie is if he dun sees either one.

I know very hard to be good mother, but I will try to not choose love. My ILs family, they choose love between my kids.

FIL : if my son cry he sure will run and see what happen to his grandson but if my daughters he will shout to me why no one hear the baby cry.

MIL : if my son want her to carry, sure she will do that but if my daughters she will tell them “I’m very busy now, marmar(grandmom) carry you later!” then walk away.

SIL : if my son she sure will attend him but my daughters she better cant see or hear them cry.

Haiz! Everyone in the house chooses love, I had told my hubby but my hubby said nvm we can give more love to them and dun border them.

I also know if #2 they get less attention and love from parents. My #2 sister and SIL they always complain about that. I know #1 child in family sure get more attention cause he/she is the first baby born in the family. #2 coming out, #1 wont get less love cause it usually get parents attention oledi. If get another that is #3 out, the #2 sure very charm cause #3 need more attention and #1 and #2 oledi grow can pay less attention so all the love goes to #3 liao.

Luckily I got #1 son we all love him and his is first son, grandson and great grandson in the family, sure get manja liao. And #2 #3 was a pair of twins so they are youngest in the family, I and hubby sure will love them too.

How about you all, if #2 in the family please give your opinion about your felling?

First time be a mother (Part I)

My son very cleaver he came out on the 2nd of May, cause 1st of May was Labour Day the hospital got sur-charge on the hospitalize fees and he help me save a lot.

On 1st of May morning, me, hubby and MIL on the way back from breakfast,

1+2mom : dunno when our son will come out ler? My due date is on 9th.
1+2dad : hehe..maybe will come out tomoro, whose know?

1+2mom : I still got something to buy ler, the beg not yet ready pack up.
1+2dad : tonite we go shopping lar, ok?

So, that hole evening I and hubby sit in frond of the pc play game, I tell him my stomach dunno what happen not so normal.

Nite time, we go One Utama shopping to buy the breast pad and some baby stuff.

About 2 something midnite, I feel abit not well but I still go back to sleep.

3 more hours later, I feel my stomach got a bit pain then I go toilet feels like to go poo but just pass some water but I know it not pee. Then I go back lay down on the bed, cant go back to sleep cause I feel my stomach very pain. I sit up and push my hubby weakup to let him know my stomach pain.

1+2mom : wei..weakup ! I got stomach pain. (hold the stomach)
1+2dad : are you going to deliver?
1+2mom : I dunno?

1+2dad : how doctor told you when you need to admit to hospital?
1+2mom : doctor said if the contraction more often about 5 min once then you can go hospital.

1+2dad : then now how you feel?
1+2mom : I not yet count wor. It feels like 15 min once only. Izzit need to go hospital?

1+2dad : I dunno, as you like. You count first lar. *go back sleep*
1+2mom *counting the contraction on and off*

2 hours later…

1+2dad : how is your contraction?
1+2mom : I dunno? Suddenly got then stop about half an hour then start again, dunno whether izzit?

1+2dad : then you want go hospital or not?
1+2mom : I dunno ler, you go office first then I call doctor ask whether I need to see him or not?

About 8.30am I call to clinic ask whether I need to admit to hospital or not? The nurse told me can admit to labor wad to wait delivery.

Then I quickly call my hubby back, on phone call

1+2mom : you come back now, the nurse said admit now maybe can deliver today wor.
1+2dad : aiya..why you dun call earlier, I nearly reach office liao and traffic very jam. Never mine, I come back now. You have your breakfast yet?

1+2mom : not yet, I am going to have Milo afterward. I still packing some stuff, you come back first.
1+2dad : ok, ok.

At 9.30am, hubby back and we go to hospital. I admit hospital at 10am.

On part II, going to blog about how I deliver my son. It is very exciting when the time is coming. We dunno what to do when we wanna be father mother. I dunno when to admit, cause I heard my friend said her sister got abit stomach pain then admit to hospital but the time not reach yet so the doctor kick her back, then few day later she admit again and back again. I very scare it is not the time yet, so I ‘san xin liang yi’ 三心两意 (think twice) dunno whether wanna admit or not? Hehe.. really very funny when wanna be a first time mum.

Carol first time say 2 pronouns word

Wah! Very happy Carol can say 2 pronouns word.

Every Saturday or Sunday I will back to my father house to visit him. I’ll bring along with the children so the grandfather can play with the grandchildren once a week, same as my younger sister. (My mum still at US so just leave my father and the elder sister at home, my younger sister she had married with one 17 months daughter).

My nephew just elder my daughters 3 months old, she know to pronouns ‘apple’. My father, sister and my son like to call her to speck that word.

Maybe Carol always heard they speck the word ‘apple’, last Sunday she try to follow my nephew.

The next day, we try to pursuit her to speck that word. Wow! Suddenly she can speck loud and clear. Now, if you as her follow you speck the word ‘apple’, she will follow you.

Hehe! Hope she can learn more word from her nephew and us so can like twinsmom house baby talk very funny.

My son new bicycle

Last Sunday we went to Toy ‘R’ Us to brought a new bicycle to him, cause saw him so poor still ride a small tricycle so we decided to brought him a bigger one.

This 3 days evening I bring him and twins to our nearest park to play his bicycle. He follows the big kor kor and jie jie so I can stay with my twins and let them try to play the swing. They look so happy and love it very much.


My son new bicycle.

Carter with his new bicycle.

Carrie

Carol