My toddler sometime so good to us, let see the conversation below :
1+2dad : “boy, when we go shopping daddy buy toys for you ok?”
Toddler : “daddy dunwan buy toys, house got soooo many toys.”
1+2dad: “wah..boy boy so cleaver. You really dunwan daddy buys toys for you?”
Toddler : “daddy dunwan buy toys, afterward..afterward daddy no money buy McD (Mcdonald).”
1+2dad & 1+2mom*drop their specs* : “I though you so cleaver, dunwan play toys dunno you love McD very much.”
Toddler : “hehehehe..McD also got toys mar.”
1+2dad & 1+2mom *roll their eyes*
Sometime he so cute,
1+2mom : “boy, please dun swing the toys, afterward will hit mei mei.”
Toddler still doing pretend didn’t hear what mommy said.
1+2mom *using loud voice* : “boy, boy, please dun do it again, if not mommy take cane here.”
Toddler : “mommy dun take cane ar.”
1+2mom : “ok, you dunwan mommy bit you then you dun do that again.”
Toddler *with smiling face*: “mommy dun bit boy boy, afterward boy boy bit you ar.”
Other family member smile until wanna fall on the floor liao, 1+2mom face oledi dark.
Another time, toddler run down stair told maid.
Toddler : “kakak, you see boy boy so naughty this poils (spoil) liao.”
He shows the water color to maid, its break into 2 cause inside dry up easily break.
Kakak *smile* : “hehe,why spoil where is mommy?”
Toddler : “boy boy naughty lor.”
Kakak : “afterward mommy come and bit you.”
Toddler : “mommy up stair vacuum.”
Hehehe, sometime he talks so funny. You dunno want to angry him or wanna smile with him.
Sunday, March 27, 2005
Thursday, March 24, 2005
My sis little puppy
Last Saturday went back to my father house and get some pic of my sis little puppy.The next day afternoon, 3 out of 4 was sending to the new owner.
Wanna blog about her doggie but dunno when the puppies were born,the sex and the name. So I call my middle sis to ask her about her puppy.
1+2mom : “wei, leng lui sorry to bother you so late.
Just wanna ask about your puppy.”
Sister : “why you wanna know about my puppy?”
1+2mom : “cause I wanna put your little puppy pic on my web lor.
Can show off mah.”
Sister : “ok,ok, what you wanna know?”
1+2mom : “how many months was your puppy now?”
Sister : “they about 7+ weeks.”
1+2mom : “how many male and female are they?”
Sister : “they all female.”
1+2mom : “errrr..what else can you tell me?”
Sister : “their type is calling Miniature Schnauzer.”
Sister : “their name is Louie,Twyekle,Carolbelle and Cloe.”
Sister : “their mother call Abbe and father call……… bla bla bla…”*1+2mom buzy jog down the note*
1+2mom : “ok,ok, enough liao. Thank you ar sis. Bye Bye.”
That all about my sis doggie, some more their grandparents are from Taiwan ler.
Below is my sis little puppy, very cute!
Wanna blog about her doggie but dunno when the puppies were born,the sex and the name. So I call my middle sis to ask her about her puppy.
1+2mom : “wei, leng lui sorry to bother you so late.
Just wanna ask about your puppy.”
Sister : “why you wanna know about my puppy?”
1+2mom : “cause I wanna put your little puppy pic on my web lor.
Can show off mah.”
Sister : “ok,ok, what you wanna know?”
1+2mom : “how many months was your puppy now?”
Sister : “they about 7+ weeks.”
1+2mom : “how many male and female are they?”
Sister : “they all female.”
1+2mom : “errrr..what else can you tell me?”
Sister : “their type is calling Miniature Schnauzer.”
Sister : “their name is Louie,Twyekle,Carolbelle and Cloe.”
Sister : “their mother call Abbe and father call……… bla bla bla…”*1+2mom buzy jog down the note*
1+2mom : “ok,ok, enough liao. Thank you ar sis. Bye Bye.”
That all about my sis doggie, some more their grandparents are from Taiwan ler.
Below is my sis little puppy, very cute!
Tuesday, March 22, 2005
Going Nap
Once upon an afternoon, toddler sitting at the bed watching his favorite VCD.
It’s time to nap,
1+2mom : “boy, its time to sleep.”
Toddler : “dunwan, I want to see cat cat.” *point to the tv*
1+2mom : “afterward you weakup mommy play again, ok?”
Toddler : “dunwan, I want see cat cat.” *start to cry*
1+2mom : “ok, ok, this one finish we go oi oi(sleep in hokien) ok?”
Toddler : *with his happy face and nod his head*
Few min later,
Toddler : “mommy, mommy, come come.”
1+2mom : “yes, boy.”
Toddler : “mommy, I want nian nian (milk) oi oi.”
1+2mom : “you really want nian nian oi oi?”
Toddler : *nod his head*
Toddler : “I want put milo.”
1+2mom : “ok, ok.”
1+2mom happy and go make milk for her toddler. She happy cause her son want to go oi oi by himself and no need her to call sooooooo many time then he go nap.
After 1+2mom make the milk and take to her toddler.
1+2mom : “boy, come go nian nian oi oi lor.”
Toddler : “I want drink nian nian here.” (at 1+2mom ILs room, cause the only room got vcd player)
1+2mom : “dunwan. You drink nian nian here, you dunwan go oi oi liao.”
Toddler : “I want see cat cat.”
1+2mom : *in hard* what lar, make me so happy though you want go oi oi. You very cleaver bluff me ar.
1+2mom : “finish nian nian go oi oi.” *start mad*
Toddler : *nod his head*
Toddler : “mommy, I want pillow.”
1+2mom : “aiya, you want so many thing hor. Go drink nian nian at your room, come.”
Toddler : “I want nian nian here.”
1+2mom : “oklar oklar, mommy go take pillow, wait.”
Toddler : *make the evil laugh*
1+2mom : *I’m the stupid mother, give the son play around. #$*&^%#*
It happens everyday now and on, dunno when will stop. Sometime the toddler will drive you crazy.
It’s time to nap,
1+2mom : “boy, its time to sleep.”
Toddler : “dunwan, I want to see cat cat.” *point to the tv*
1+2mom : “afterward you weakup mommy play again, ok?”
Toddler : “dunwan, I want see cat cat.” *start to cry*
1+2mom : “ok, ok, this one finish we go oi oi(sleep in hokien) ok?”
Toddler : *with his happy face and nod his head*
Few min later,
Toddler : “mommy, mommy, come come.”
1+2mom : “yes, boy.”
Toddler : “mommy, I want nian nian (milk) oi oi.”
1+2mom : “you really want nian nian oi oi?”
Toddler : *nod his head*
Toddler : “I want put milo.”
1+2mom : “ok, ok.”
1+2mom happy and go make milk for her toddler. She happy cause her son want to go oi oi by himself and no need her to call sooooooo many time then he go nap.
After 1+2mom make the milk and take to her toddler.
1+2mom : “boy, come go nian nian oi oi lor.”
Toddler : “I want drink nian nian here.” (at 1+2mom ILs room, cause the only room got vcd player)
1+2mom : “dunwan. You drink nian nian here, you dunwan go oi oi liao.”
Toddler : “I want see cat cat.”
1+2mom : *in hard* what lar, make me so happy though you want go oi oi. You very cleaver bluff me ar.
1+2mom : “finish nian nian go oi oi.” *start mad*
Toddler : *nod his head*
Toddler : “mommy, I want pillow.”
1+2mom : “aiya, you want so many thing hor. Go drink nian nian at your room, come.”
Toddler : “I want nian nian here.”
1+2mom : “oklar oklar, mommy go take pillow, wait.”
Toddler : *make the evil laugh*
1+2mom : *I’m the stupid mother, give the son play around. #$*&^%#*
It happens everyday now and on, dunno when will stop. Sometime the toddler will drive you crazy.
Sunday, March 20, 2005
Doraemon is here
Just back from Sunway Pyramid for the Doraemon live in Malaysia, my son very enjoys the show. Actually the Doraemon just have a dance and take photo with the children. My son love Doraemon very much, he got the entire Doraemon movie at home and must saw that vcd once a day.
We arrived at Sunway Pyramid about 12 pm, the parking lot quite free maybe it still early. We have our breakfast and lunch at McDonald, my son is playing around at the playground there.
About an hour later, we been to Toy City have a walk. Later we go to the Family Entertainment Park there have a look, we saw few girls playing the ParaParaDance there.
About 45 min more, we go to the stage and wait the show start. While we were waiting, they give out some balloons for the children. We get 3 of it, hehe.. I got 3 children mar!
2pm sharp, the show start! They playing the Doraemon song title and the Doraemon slowly walk to the stage and give us a dance. After that, he takes photo with the children one by one. This poor guy in the Doraemon just stay there about 15 min then he gone, really very hard to be a Doraemon. You can see the photo later, cause my hubby using the other pc(mine one dun have that program, will ask him to set up for me) so I cant download the photo to the computer.
Finally got the photo here.
We arrived at Sunway Pyramid about 12 pm, the parking lot quite free maybe it still early. We have our breakfast and lunch at McDonald, my son is playing around at the playground there.
About an hour later, we been to Toy City have a walk. Later we go to the Family Entertainment Park there have a look, we saw few girls playing the ParaParaDance there.
About 45 min more, we go to the stage and wait the show start. While we were waiting, they give out some balloons for the children. We get 3 of it, hehe.. I got 3 children mar!
2pm sharp, the show start! They playing the Doraemon song title and the Doraemon slowly walk to the stage and give us a dance. After that, he takes photo with the children one by one. This poor guy in the Doraemon just stay there about 15 min then he gone, really very hard to be a Doraemon. You can see the photo later, cause my hubby using the other pc(mine one dun have that program, will ask him to set up for me) so I cant download the photo to the computer.
Finally got the photo here.
Saturday, March 19, 2005
Wedding photos
As some of the blogger request, I would like to post some other pose of my wedding photos. This is the last, I wont post some more cause scare no more mommies come to my blog liao. I will cry very sad lor :P
"SORRY FOR THAT BECAUSE OF SOME REASON ALL THE PHOTOS MUST PULL DOWN!"
"SORRY FOR THAT BECAUSE OF SOME REASON ALL THE PHOTOS MUST PULL DOWN!"
Tuesday, March 15, 2005
Pass “me” and Present “me”
Think very long times dunno whether want to post my photos to the blog or not? Very shy to show you all my photos cause much difference from the pass and now (for me and my hubby said).
After got my son, my weight get higher and higher, gain few kgs from the pass. Izzit look very young then my actual age? Many ppl said I’m just look like student and some said me and my son were brother and sister..hehehe.. pai seh (shy) !
"SORRY FOR THAT BECAUSE OF SOME REASON ALL THE PHOTOS MUST PULL DOWN!"
After got my son, my weight get higher and higher, gain few kgs from the pass. Izzit look very young then my actual age? Many ppl said I’m just look like student and some said me and my son were brother and sister..hehehe.. pai seh (shy) !
"SORRY FOR THAT BECAUSE OF SOME REASON ALL THE PHOTOS MUST PULL DOWN!"
Sunday, March 13, 2005
Choose Love
So many ppl like to ask me whether I will choose love between my kids. My answer is I wont ! Cause all of them need me, I cant choose to love either one only and all of them are my children. As a parents shouldnt choose love, if the parents choose love, their kids wont be happy ever after.
My ILs also ask me the same questions, I gave the same answer to her. Why they ask such question? Izzit mother will choose to love one kid only, if yes why she don’t just have one child then get other?
I love all my kids, they are unique no one can replace the other one. They had difference character, reacting, talking, moving and ect..
Between my kid who are snatch the other toy I wont bother it is elder or younger I sure will ask back the toy and give back to whom just playing that toys. I will let the other party know that snatching is a bad habit and should ask b4 you take from the other or wait you turn.
I know my twins still young but they will understand if you repeat and repeat to tell them. My son too, if his sister snatch his toy he will shout for my help and I will get it back to him and if many there I will ask him to share with his sisters. For my girls, they sure used cry to get my attention lar, so I will told my son to give back the toy to her and wait his turn to play.
I know sometime kids will fight, but after that they can play together and happy. If you ask my son whether he want his sisters to give other ppl, he sure will protect his sisters that no one can get from him. For example, if I tell my son ”mommy will leave mei mei at gong gong house, can or not?” he sure will answer with crying face “dunwan, mommy go kelly(carry) mei mei!” Even though they always fight but they love each other, if one missing the other will find. My son always likes to ask where Carol or Carrie is if he dun sees either one.
I know very hard to be good mother, but I will try to not choose love. My ILs family, they choose love between my kids.
FIL : if my son cry he sure will run and see what happen to his grandson but if my daughters he will shout to me why no one hear the baby cry.
MIL : if my son want her to carry, sure she will do that but if my daughters she will tell them “I’m very busy now, marmar(grandmom) carry you later!” then walk away.
SIL : if my son she sure will attend him but my daughters she better cant see or hear them cry.
Haiz! Everyone in the house chooses love, I had told my hubby but my hubby said nvm we can give more love to them and dun border them.
I also know if #2 they get less attention and love from parents. My #2 sister and SIL they always complain about that. I know #1 child in family sure get more attention cause he/she is the first baby born in the family. #2 coming out, #1 wont get less love cause it usually get parents attention oledi. If get another that is #3 out, the #2 sure very charm cause #3 need more attention and #1 and #2 oledi grow can pay less attention so all the love goes to #3 liao.
Luckily I got #1 son we all love him and his is first son, grandson and great grandson in the family, sure get manja liao. And #2 #3 was a pair of twins so they are youngest in the family, I and hubby sure will love them too.
How about you all, if #2 in the family please give your opinion about your felling?
My ILs also ask me the same questions, I gave the same answer to her. Why they ask such question? Izzit mother will choose to love one kid only, if yes why she don’t just have one child then get other?
I love all my kids, they are unique no one can replace the other one. They had difference character, reacting, talking, moving and ect..
Between my kid who are snatch the other toy I wont bother it is elder or younger I sure will ask back the toy and give back to whom just playing that toys. I will let the other party know that snatching is a bad habit and should ask b4 you take from the other or wait you turn.
I know my twins still young but they will understand if you repeat and repeat to tell them. My son too, if his sister snatch his toy he will shout for my help and I will get it back to him and if many there I will ask him to share with his sisters. For my girls, they sure used cry to get my attention lar, so I will told my son to give back the toy to her and wait his turn to play.
I know sometime kids will fight, but after that they can play together and happy. If you ask my son whether he want his sisters to give other ppl, he sure will protect his sisters that no one can get from him. For example, if I tell my son ”mommy will leave mei mei at gong gong house, can or not?” he sure will answer with crying face “dunwan, mommy go kelly(carry) mei mei!” Even though they always fight but they love each other, if one missing the other will find. My son always likes to ask where Carol or Carrie is if he dun sees either one.
I know very hard to be good mother, but I will try to not choose love. My ILs family, they choose love between my kids.
FIL : if my son cry he sure will run and see what happen to his grandson but if my daughters he will shout to me why no one hear the baby cry.
MIL : if my son want her to carry, sure she will do that but if my daughters she will tell them “I’m very busy now, marmar(grandmom) carry you later!” then walk away.
SIL : if my son she sure will attend him but my daughters she better cant see or hear them cry.
Haiz! Everyone in the house chooses love, I had told my hubby but my hubby said nvm we can give more love to them and dun border them.
I also know if #2 they get less attention and love from parents. My #2 sister and SIL they always complain about that. I know #1 child in family sure get more attention cause he/she is the first baby born in the family. #2 coming out, #1 wont get less love cause it usually get parents attention oledi. If get another that is #3 out, the #2 sure very charm cause #3 need more attention and #1 and #2 oledi grow can pay less attention so all the love goes to #3 liao.
Luckily I got #1 son we all love him and his is first son, grandson and great grandson in the family, sure get manja liao. And #2 #3 was a pair of twins so they are youngest in the family, I and hubby sure will love them too.
How about you all, if #2 in the family please give your opinion about your felling?
Thursday, March 10, 2005
First time be a mother (Part I)
My son very cleaver he came out on the 2nd of May, cause 1st of May was Labour Day the hospital got sur-charge on the hospitalize fees and he help me save a lot.
On 1st of May morning, me, hubby and MIL on the way back from breakfast,
1+2mom : dunno when our son will come out ler? My due date is on 9th.
1+2dad : hehe..maybe will come out tomoro, whose know?
1+2mom : I still got something to buy ler, the beg not yet ready pack up.
1+2dad : tonite we go shopping lar, ok?
So, that hole evening I and hubby sit in frond of the pc play game, I tell him my stomach dunno what happen not so normal.
Nite time, we go One Utama shopping to buy the breast pad and some baby stuff.
About 2 something midnite, I feel abit not well but I still go back to sleep.
3 more hours later, I feel my stomach got a bit pain then I go toilet feels like to go poo but just pass some water but I know it not pee. Then I go back lay down on the bed, cant go back to sleep cause I feel my stomach very pain. I sit up and push my hubby weakup to let him know my stomach pain.
1+2mom : wei..weakup ! I got stomach pain. (hold the stomach)
1+2dad : are you going to deliver?
1+2mom : I dunno?
1+2dad : how doctor told you when you need to admit to hospital?
1+2mom : doctor said if the contraction more often about 5 min once then you can go hospital.
1+2dad : then now how you feel?
1+2mom : I not yet count wor. It feels like 15 min once only. Izzit need to go hospital?
1+2dad : I dunno, as you like. You count first lar. *go back sleep*
1+2mom *counting the contraction on and off*
2 hours later…
1+2dad : how is your contraction?
1+2mom : I dunno? Suddenly got then stop about half an hour then start again, dunno whether izzit?
1+2dad : then you want go hospital or not?
1+2mom : I dunno ler, you go office first then I call doctor ask whether I need to see him or not?
About 8.30am I call to clinic ask whether I need to admit to hospital or not? The nurse told me can admit to labor wad to wait delivery.
Then I quickly call my hubby back, on phone call
1+2mom : you come back now, the nurse said admit now maybe can deliver today wor.
1+2dad : aiya..why you dun call earlier, I nearly reach office liao and traffic very jam. Never mine, I come back now. You have your breakfast yet?
1+2mom : not yet, I am going to have Milo afterward. I still packing some stuff, you come back first.
1+2dad : ok, ok.
At 9.30am, hubby back and we go to hospital. I admit hospital at 10am.
On part II, going to blog about how I deliver my son. It is very exciting when the time is coming. We dunno what to do when we wanna be father mother. I dunno when to admit, cause I heard my friend said her sister got abit stomach pain then admit to hospital but the time not reach yet so the doctor kick her back, then few day later she admit again and back again. I very scare it is not the time yet, so I ‘san xin liang yi’ 三心两意 (think twice) dunno whether wanna admit or not? Hehe.. really very funny when wanna be a first time mum.
On 1st of May morning, me, hubby and MIL on the way back from breakfast,
1+2mom : dunno when our son will come out ler? My due date is on 9th.
1+2dad : hehe..maybe will come out tomoro, whose know?
1+2mom : I still got something to buy ler, the beg not yet ready pack up.
1+2dad : tonite we go shopping lar, ok?
So, that hole evening I and hubby sit in frond of the pc play game, I tell him my stomach dunno what happen not so normal.
Nite time, we go One Utama shopping to buy the breast pad and some baby stuff.
About 2 something midnite, I feel abit not well but I still go back to sleep.
3 more hours later, I feel my stomach got a bit pain then I go toilet feels like to go poo but just pass some water but I know it not pee. Then I go back lay down on the bed, cant go back to sleep cause I feel my stomach very pain. I sit up and push my hubby weakup to let him know my stomach pain.
1+2mom : wei..weakup ! I got stomach pain. (hold the stomach)
1+2dad : are you going to deliver?
1+2mom : I dunno?
1+2dad : how doctor told you when you need to admit to hospital?
1+2mom : doctor said if the contraction more often about 5 min once then you can go hospital.
1+2dad : then now how you feel?
1+2mom : I not yet count wor. It feels like 15 min once only. Izzit need to go hospital?
1+2dad : I dunno, as you like. You count first lar. *go back sleep*
1+2mom *counting the contraction on and off*
2 hours later…
1+2dad : how is your contraction?
1+2mom : I dunno? Suddenly got then stop about half an hour then start again, dunno whether izzit?
1+2dad : then you want go hospital or not?
1+2mom : I dunno ler, you go office first then I call doctor ask whether I need to see him or not?
About 8.30am I call to clinic ask whether I need to admit to hospital or not? The nurse told me can admit to labor wad to wait delivery.
Then I quickly call my hubby back, on phone call
1+2mom : you come back now, the nurse said admit now maybe can deliver today wor.
1+2dad : aiya..why you dun call earlier, I nearly reach office liao and traffic very jam. Never mine, I come back now. You have your breakfast yet?
1+2mom : not yet, I am going to have Milo afterward. I still packing some stuff, you come back first.
1+2dad : ok, ok.
At 9.30am, hubby back and we go to hospital. I admit hospital at 10am.
On part II, going to blog about how I deliver my son. It is very exciting when the time is coming. We dunno what to do when we wanna be father mother. I dunno when to admit, cause I heard my friend said her sister got abit stomach pain then admit to hospital but the time not reach yet so the doctor kick her back, then few day later she admit again and back again. I very scare it is not the time yet, so I ‘san xin liang yi’ 三心两意 (think twice) dunno whether wanna admit or not? Hehe.. really very funny when wanna be a first time mum.
Friday, March 04, 2005
Carol first time say 2 pronouns word
Wah! Very happy Carol can say 2 pronouns word.
Every Saturday or Sunday I will back to my father house to visit him. I’ll bring along with the children so the grandfather can play with the grandchildren once a week, same as my younger sister. (My mum still at US so just leave my father and the elder sister at home, my younger sister she had married with one 17 months daughter).
My nephew just elder my daughters 3 months old, she know to pronouns ‘apple’. My father, sister and my son like to call her to speck that word.
Maybe Carol always heard they speck the word ‘apple’, last Sunday she try to follow my nephew.
The next day, we try to pursuit her to speck that word. Wow! Suddenly she can speck loud and clear. Now, if you as her follow you speck the word ‘apple’, she will follow you.
Hehe! Hope she can learn more word from her nephew and us so can like twinsmom house baby talk very funny.
Every Saturday or Sunday I will back to my father house to visit him. I’ll bring along with the children so the grandfather can play with the grandchildren once a week, same as my younger sister. (My mum still at US so just leave my father and the elder sister at home, my younger sister she had married with one 17 months daughter).
My nephew just elder my daughters 3 months old, she know to pronouns ‘apple’. My father, sister and my son like to call her to speck that word.
Maybe Carol always heard they speck the word ‘apple’, last Sunday she try to follow my nephew.
The next day, we try to pursuit her to speck that word. Wow! Suddenly she can speck loud and clear. Now, if you as her follow you speck the word ‘apple’, she will follow you.
Hehe! Hope she can learn more word from her nephew and us so can like twinsmom house baby talk very funny.
Thursday, March 03, 2005
My son new bicycle
Last Sunday we went to Toy ‘R’ Us to brought a new bicycle to him, cause saw him so poor still ride a small tricycle so we decided to brought him a bigger one.
This 3 days evening I bring him and twins to our nearest park to play his bicycle. He follows the big kor kor and jie jie so I can stay with my twins and let them try to play the swing. They look so happy and love it very much.
My son new bicycle.
Carter with his new bicycle.
Carrie
Carol
This 3 days evening I bring him and twins to our nearest park to play his bicycle. He follows the big kor kor and jie jie so I can stay with my twins and let them try to play the swing. They look so happy and love it very much.
My son new bicycle.
Carter with his new bicycle.
Carrie
Carol
Monday, February 28, 2005
Children ang paw
Reading msau blog regarding the children ang paw, and I would like to blog about my children ang paws too.
I start open my son account since he is 2 month old, really he just 2 month old.. hehe..cause I wanna put his own money for his own account.
First time money in his account is his full moon ang paw money. This is because the ppl gave the ang paw to him for his wishes to my son so we decided to put all his money to his account,and wait till he need the money for his education fund or something else he wanna buy when he grow up (we still pun money to his account each month for his education fund).
The next year, he gets the CNY ang paw and his birthday and paw we also put in to his bank account.
The following year, his sister came out, we decided to bank in all ang paw money together in my son account so can less mah fan. Next time, they grow up we divided the money into 3 set to gave them.
Like msau friend said that, if anything happen to us our kids will get the money after they reach 18 years old if we bank it to the bank, so that time they need the money urgently and cant wait till 18 years old. For my opinion, if they get the big amount money they still young also dunno how to use the money, right? Why not wait till they 18 years old then get the money so they can continue the education or do what ever they want, maybe can pay back his baby-sit education fund too if they trade him like family.
I start open my son account since he is 2 month old, really he just 2 month old.. hehe..cause I wanna put his own money for his own account.
First time money in his account is his full moon ang paw money. This is because the ppl gave the ang paw to him for his wishes to my son so we decided to put all his money to his account,and wait till he need the money for his education fund or something else he wanna buy when he grow up (we still pun money to his account each month for his education fund).
The next year, he gets the CNY ang paw and his birthday and paw we also put in to his bank account.
The following year, his sister came out, we decided to bank in all ang paw money together in my son account so can less mah fan. Next time, they grow up we divided the money into 3 set to gave them.
Like msau friend said that, if anything happen to us our kids will get the money after they reach 18 years old if we bank it to the bank, so that time they need the money urgently and cant wait till 18 years old. For my opinion, if they get the big amount money they still young also dunno how to use the money, right? Why not wait till they 18 years old then get the money so they can continue the education or do what ever they want, maybe can pay back his baby-sit education fund too if they trade him like family.
Friday, February 25, 2005
House-hold chore
Now a day so many girls dunno how to cook, some also dunno how to do house-hold chores too.
My auntie she is really a ‘qian jin xiao jie’, that time we have chat she told me when she at secondary school she dunno need to sweep the floor first b4 mop the floor and she didn’t wash her shoes b4 too, it all done by her house maid.
Cause many family had a maid at home so their children didn’t have chance to learn do house chore and parents may told them this is the maid job so they no need to do it.
Remember last time saw the Singapore movie I think call the ‘xiao hai bu ben’ 小孩不笨 inside got 1 rich child got kidnap he call the bad guy do all the thing include make a drink for him and put the kaya to the bread for him. The bad guy asks him you dunno how to do ar? The kid told him my mum said this is the maid job I no need to do it. LOL !This movie really very funny.
When I was at secondary school, I study at girl’s school. At form 3, we had cooking class. All of us really very love the cooking class, after finish the cook we usually share to each other and test the taste of the food. I still remember that time, really very happy to attend the cooking class compare to other class.
I help my mum do the house chore when I still in primary school. Me and my elder sister will help her wash the cloth, dish, vegetable… ect and clean the house. (my mum got 3 daughters – me, the eldest and 2 more younger sister. My elders sister just younger me 364 days cause her birthday 1 day earlier then my birthday – she’s on 11th Nov and mine on 12th Nov, so usually we celebrate our birthday together).
Very thank you to my mum that had train us to do hours chore, so now its no problem to me to handle the house chore after I married to my hubby and his family (HEHE! Cause I stay with them so I married with his family too).
Before having children, I was the chef at home. Now need to take care 3 of them, so I pass the job to my MIL. My MIL told me she rather cooking better then takes care of the kids. She said now a day children very active, she had no energy to chase them follow them up and down.
I sure will train my kid to do house chore no matter is boy or girl, so next time I got so many helper. Specially my son, if next time got wife he also need to help his wife to do all the housework. Because my hubby dunno how to do house work, he all depends on his mum or me. My MIL very regret when my hubby young he didn’t train him to do housework, if not now he can help her and me to do some house work lor.
My MIL now tries to train my son to help her do some house chore like when she cooking, my son like to help her wash the vegetable. After he washes the vegetable, he will pull the water and use broom to sweep the floor. Hope when we grow up he will be a very good helper.
My auntie she is really a ‘qian jin xiao jie’, that time we have chat she told me when she at secondary school she dunno need to sweep the floor first b4 mop the floor and she didn’t wash her shoes b4 too, it all done by her house maid.
Cause many family had a maid at home so their children didn’t have chance to learn do house chore and parents may told them this is the maid job so they no need to do it.
Remember last time saw the Singapore movie I think call the ‘xiao hai bu ben’ 小孩不笨 inside got 1 rich child got kidnap he call the bad guy do all the thing include make a drink for him and put the kaya to the bread for him. The bad guy asks him you dunno how to do ar? The kid told him my mum said this is the maid job I no need to do it. LOL !This movie really very funny.
When I was at secondary school, I study at girl’s school. At form 3, we had cooking class. All of us really very love the cooking class, after finish the cook we usually share to each other and test the taste of the food. I still remember that time, really very happy to attend the cooking class compare to other class.
I help my mum do the house chore when I still in primary school. Me and my elder sister will help her wash the cloth, dish, vegetable… ect and clean the house. (my mum got 3 daughters – me, the eldest and 2 more younger sister. My elders sister just younger me 364 days cause her birthday 1 day earlier then my birthday – she’s on 11th Nov and mine on 12th Nov, so usually we celebrate our birthday together).
Very thank you to my mum that had train us to do hours chore, so now its no problem to me to handle the house chore after I married to my hubby and his family (HEHE! Cause I stay with them so I married with his family too).
Before having children, I was the chef at home. Now need to take care 3 of them, so I pass the job to my MIL. My MIL told me she rather cooking better then takes care of the kids. She said now a day children very active, she had no energy to chase them follow them up and down.
I sure will train my kid to do house chore no matter is boy or girl, so next time I got so many helper. Specially my son, if next time got wife he also need to help his wife to do all the housework. Because my hubby dunno how to do house work, he all depends on his mum or me. My MIL very regret when my hubby young he didn’t train him to do housework, if not now he can help her and me to do some house work lor.
My MIL now tries to train my son to help her do some house chore like when she cooking, my son like to help her wash the vegetable. After he washes the vegetable, he will pull the water and use broom to sweep the floor. Hope when we grow up he will be a very good helper.
Wednesday, February 23, 2005
Terrible girl using toilet & toilet paper
Last time my first job was a data entry clerk in a welding firm, I have a colleague she got a very bad habit that she using toilet for more then 10 min each time she going in.
I dunno why she used a toilet for such a long time, I dun think that toilet got very nice smile or gold inside. It just a very simple toilet.
We very scare she go toilet when we need to use it urgently, because need to wait for so long and the other toilet is especially for boss so no other toilet can share.
Some more she can used 2 rolls toilet paper for 3 days by herself, yes only her. My boss wife always ask us why the toilet paper so fast finish, we dun dare to let her know because my colleague is her son girlfriend.
I remember last time we got company trip to Pulau Redang for 3 days 2 night, my supervisor (my boss sister) and another colleague are same room with her got so many complain about her.
She told us at the next day there, she can shower for more then an hour and didn’t border about other for waiting her so long to use the bathroom. My supervisor and colleague stand outside the room just wait her shower and without let they going in the room for an hour and they haven’t shower yet after snookering back and having their buffer lunch.
Wait till she came out all of the male finish and my supervisor just ate biscuit and drink Milo only. She very annoying and let us know she can finish all the toilet paper (each room got 2 rolls for the trip) without left any for them. I just pass 1 roll for her and let her know me and my boyfriend (my hubby now) even can’t finish a roll in a day. I can’t imagine how she used those 2 rolls of the toilet paper?
She is my only friend I meet in my life that have such a terrible habit, dunno why my boss son can tahan her some more now already became his wife.
I dunno why she used a toilet for such a long time, I dun think that toilet got very nice smile or gold inside. It just a very simple toilet.
We very scare she go toilet when we need to use it urgently, because need to wait for so long and the other toilet is especially for boss so no other toilet can share.
Some more she can used 2 rolls toilet paper for 3 days by herself, yes only her. My boss wife always ask us why the toilet paper so fast finish, we dun dare to let her know because my colleague is her son girlfriend.
I remember last time we got company trip to Pulau Redang for 3 days 2 night, my supervisor (my boss sister) and another colleague are same room with her got so many complain about her.
She told us at the next day there, she can shower for more then an hour and didn’t border about other for waiting her so long to use the bathroom. My supervisor and colleague stand outside the room just wait her shower and without let they going in the room for an hour and they haven’t shower yet after snookering back and having their buffer lunch.
Wait till she came out all of the male finish and my supervisor just ate biscuit and drink Milo only. She very annoying and let us know she can finish all the toilet paper (each room got 2 rolls for the trip) without left any for them. I just pass 1 roll for her and let her know me and my boyfriend (my hubby now) even can’t finish a roll in a day. I can’t imagine how she used those 2 rolls of the toilet paper?
She is my only friend I meet in my life that have such a terrible habit, dunno why my boss son can tahan her some more now already became his wife.
They care each other
Yesterday Carol accidentally push Carrie fall, then Carrie cry very loud. I quickly carry Carrie and said:”Nevermind, jie jie accidentally push you on the floor dun cry.” I keep telling her not to cry.
Suddenly Carol used her hand and sayang Carrie head then Carrie stop crying and rolling her eye looks what her sister doing. When I saw this moment it very touch my heard that what ever they fight each other but they still love each other.
Today afternoon, Carol cry for no reason then Carrie put some biscuit in her mouth. Carol stops crying and ate the biscuit then Carrie keep giving her biscuit. It so funny that they so young still know to take care each other.
Suddenly Carol used her hand and sayang Carrie head then Carrie stop crying and rolling her eye looks what her sister doing. When I saw this moment it very touch my heard that what ever they fight each other but they still love each other.
Today afternoon, Carol cry for no reason then Carrie put some biscuit in her mouth. Carol stops crying and ate the biscuit then Carrie keep giving her biscuit. It so funny that they so young still know to take care each other.
Monday, February 21, 2005
Yeah ! Carrie knows how to walk liao !
Carrie – my younger twins daughter know how to walk liao ! I’m very happy and would like to share with you all.
She try to walk very hard this whole week, finally she can walk without anyone help.
On the other hand, Carol – the elder twins just not yet walks but learn to walk for 2 steps forward. She abit slow then her younger sister, but try very hard to learn. Last time she start crawl also later then her sister.
Carol: I also want to walk like her!
You see! I also can dance too.
She try to walk very hard this whole week, finally she can walk without anyone help.
On the other hand, Carol – the elder twins just not yet walks but learn to walk for 2 steps forward. She abit slow then her younger sister, but try very hard to learn. Last time she start crawl also later then her sister.
Carol: I also want to walk like her!
You see! I also can dance too.
Sunday, February 13, 2005
Premier toilet in KLCC. RM2 for a Pee ??
This also my friend e-mails me the photo show that needs RM 2.00 for a pee what an expensive pee!!
If me I won’t go for it, save the money can buy many things to my kids!
Ever wonder what is so special inside? Here u are.....
Sign board
Ticket
Toilet view
Basin view
If me I won’t go for it, save the money can buy many things to my kids!
Ever wonder what is so special inside? Here u are.....
Sign board
Ticket
Toilet view
Basin view
Sixtuplet
My friend sends me an e-mail that show me someone got sixtuplet, so wanna share with you all. They were so cute but I got a pair of twins know it very hard to manage but dunno how this parents can manage them ??
They are very cute !!!
They with their elder twin’s sisters!
What a wonderful family !!!
They can get the triplet stroller ler!!
They are very cute !!!
They with their elder twin’s sisters!
What a wonderful family !!!
They can get the triplet stroller ler!!
Thursday, February 03, 2005
My toddler son
This time I wanna blog about my son. He is 2 yrs 9 mth now, and loves his pair of twin’s sisters very much. He wont let any stranger to carry his sisters, maybe he scare no one will play with him when his pair of twins sisters gone.
Remember when my first time pregnant, our family very happy cause I hard to get pregnant even thought we had married about 1 yr plus. Then few month later we know it was a baby boy, we feel happier (my dh is the only son in his family).
Look back to his photo album, found out he really got so many photo. The time he bathing, eating, breastfeeding, crawling, etc… Check back to my twins girls, so poor that miss so many moment didn’t take it down something like breastfeeding, massage for them and their hands too. Maybe because of first time mummy likes to note down the entire baby milestone and take so many photos to keep in the memory.
My son milestone :
3 ½ month - know to turn back
4 month - crawling like worm and learn to sit
5 ½ month - know to crawl and learn to stand
5 ¾ month - claim the staircase and open hand need ppl carry
6 month - know to stand and start toilet train
6 ½ month - know to hold the sofa and walk
7 month - teething and sit steel
8 ½ month - know to come down from the bed by himself and know to
call "ma ma"
9 month - start teething for teeth no.5
9 ½ month - know singing, call “ba ba”, said ‘nian nian” and push the
small box to claim to sofa
10 month - know to walk 2 steps without holding his hand
11 month - start teething for teeth no. 7 & 8
11 ½ month - know to stand up and walk
12 month - understand what you want him to take
When he is baby I talk to my hubby” ahh... dunno when our son will play with us and talk to us like other toddler ler?” My hubby answers me”the time will come very soon.” I said “You can imagine that 3 of us can play together and talk together, it was a very funny and happy thing in my life.” Yap, now my son can talk 2 type of language which is mandarin and English. He will talk to me, hubby and his sisters in English but to my in-law he will talk mandarin. Sometime both of us will fight each other, the thing I dun give him play he can say so many excuse to me. Like yesterday I show him the clock can singing when put the batteries inside because of the clock put in the bedroom and it will sing each hours so I take off the batteries. After his nap, he wants the clock singing but I let him know the clock no sound and spoiled. He answer me said “ just now the clock singing, got sound lar” I reply “no more sound, just now spoiled already” my son said again “put batti inside got sound lar, clock can singing.” You see, when he dunno how to talk, you are so worry. Now he know how to talk make me headache.
This is my son one month old hand.
This is my son 2 yrs old hand.
This is he 2 months old photo,still a little baby.
This is he 2 yrs old photo,handsome boy oledi lor.
Remember when my first time pregnant, our family very happy cause I hard to get pregnant even thought we had married about 1 yr plus. Then few month later we know it was a baby boy, we feel happier (my dh is the only son in his family).
Look back to his photo album, found out he really got so many photo. The time he bathing, eating, breastfeeding, crawling, etc… Check back to my twins girls, so poor that miss so many moment didn’t take it down something like breastfeeding, massage for them and their hands too. Maybe because of first time mummy likes to note down the entire baby milestone and take so many photos to keep in the memory.
My son milestone :
3 ½ month - know to turn back
4 month - crawling like worm and learn to sit
5 ½ month - know to crawl and learn to stand
5 ¾ month - claim the staircase and open hand need ppl carry
6 month - know to stand and start toilet train
6 ½ month - know to hold the sofa and walk
7 month - teething and sit steel
8 ½ month - know to come down from the bed by himself and know to
call "ma ma"
9 month - start teething for teeth no.5
9 ½ month - know singing, call “ba ba”, said ‘nian nian” and push the
small box to claim to sofa
10 month - know to walk 2 steps without holding his hand
11 month - start teething for teeth no. 7 & 8
11 ½ month - know to stand up and walk
12 month - understand what you want him to take
When he is baby I talk to my hubby” ahh... dunno when our son will play with us and talk to us like other toddler ler?” My hubby answers me”the time will come very soon.” I said “You can imagine that 3 of us can play together and talk together, it was a very funny and happy thing in my life.” Yap, now my son can talk 2 type of language which is mandarin and English. He will talk to me, hubby and his sisters in English but to my in-law he will talk mandarin. Sometime both of us will fight each other, the thing I dun give him play he can say so many excuse to me. Like yesterday I show him the clock can singing when put the batteries inside because of the clock put in the bedroom and it will sing each hours so I take off the batteries. After his nap, he wants the clock singing but I let him know the clock no sound and spoiled. He answer me said “ just now the clock singing, got sound lar” I reply “no more sound, just now spoiled already” my son said again “put batti inside got sound lar, clock can singing.” You see, when he dunno how to talk, you are so worry. Now he know how to talk make me headache.
This is my son one month old hand.
This is my son 2 yrs old hand.
This is he 2 months old photo,still a little baby.
This is he 2 yrs old photo,handsome boy oledi lor.
Wednesday, February 02, 2005
Best Friend and I
I meet my best friend (I call her Cheah) at secondary school but we just were 3 yrs class mate but we still keep contact each other. After we leave school, we have our life each other. I got boy friend first then she is. I married earlier then her about half a year.
Few months later, we are pregnant together but our baby is half month difference. We share our pregnancy together too, each time she had checkup she will call me about her update so do I (cause we checkup at difference hospital). Till I deliver my baby boy with one week earlier then my due date and she deliver her baby girl with one week later then her due date, so both of our baby just difference one month. When both of our baby born , we also share our baby milestone
One year later, I had pregnant again. I ask my husband :”this time dunno who else will pregnant together with me ler? Cause last time my best friend accompany me mar!” I told the good news to my best friend, she congratulate me. Half month later she calls me and told me she had pregnant too, wow both of us very happy. My other best friend too (I all her Ng) call me she also had pregnant. 3 of us many thing very ngam, all of us husband are the same age and also same age with us, Cheah mother also same age with my mom. Now we pregnant in the same time and our baby due date are at the same month, but this time I got twins girls but my other 2 friends got baby boy.
We are same age, pregnant in the same time but check back to the Chinese Boy Or Girl Chat we should having baby girl but why my friends got baby boy so I 100% sure that the chat not so accurate.
Few months later, we are pregnant together but our baby is half month difference. We share our pregnancy together too, each time she had checkup she will call me about her update so do I (cause we checkup at difference hospital). Till I deliver my baby boy with one week earlier then my due date and she deliver her baby girl with one week later then her due date, so both of our baby just difference one month. When both of our baby born , we also share our baby milestone
One year later, I had pregnant again. I ask my husband :”this time dunno who else will pregnant together with me ler? Cause last time my best friend accompany me mar!” I told the good news to my best friend, she congratulate me. Half month later she calls me and told me she had pregnant too, wow both of us very happy. My other best friend too (I all her Ng) call me she also had pregnant. 3 of us many thing very ngam, all of us husband are the same age and also same age with us, Cheah mother also same age with my mom. Now we pregnant in the same time and our baby due date are at the same month, but this time I got twins girls but my other 2 friends got baby boy.
We are same age, pregnant in the same time but check back to the Chinese Boy Or Girl Chat we should having baby girl but why my friends got baby boy so I 100% sure that the chat not so accurate.
Thursday, January 27, 2005
女人比男人苦啊!!
几个月前，我的朋友e-mail 给我的小故事 ：
男女吵架实战宝典范 (女生版)
那晚 , 我认识的一对年轻夫妇中的太太哭着来电 ：［你快来！我恨他！我要和他离婚！］
快速赶到他们家，这会儿还正吵的凶呢！
男说 ：［她很无聊，我上班好累，她说晚上要去散步，我说改天，改天换，她就又哭又闹，真是讨厌！］
女说：［你才讨厌，我在家作牛作马为这个家打扫，为你做饭为你生孩子，为你们臭男人当发泄兽欲的工具怎么，只要求散个步你就会累死啦！？］
男说：［喂！生小孩是两人的事又不是我一人的事，妳累难道我不累？我发泄难道妳没享受？］
女说：［哼！早知道生了小孩你不管我根本就不生，我们女人为何辛苦生下孩子，就一定要负责孩子的一切，又不能出去工作。］
男说：［喂！生孩子又不是妳一人能办到，没有我妳生个屁。］
女说：［哼！你们男人有何贡献？享受女人肉体的是你，发泄的也是你，你贡献了什么？］
男说：［哼！没有我的贡献精子你生什么！？］
再来下面的话让人难忘!!
女说：［哈哈！ 贡献精子你，享受完了，你射精了，你贡献了，好那看看我们女人的贡献：
我怀孕要忍耐呕吐
我要小心饮食
我连生病都不敢吃药
我要为肚里孩子注意一切
我怀孕不便于行
我不再能远行郊游
我坐车都不方便
我要穿上大肚装
我不能放心行房
我要担心肚里孩子是否健康
我要定时去医院产检
我怀孕要破坏身材
我要烦恼妊娠纹的出现
生产后要努力恢复身材使丈夫不嫌弃
我要忍受阵痛
我也许须要剖腹生产
我也许会有产后忧郁症
我要带初生婴儿
我因喂奶而胸部下垂
我要照顾小孩生活起居
我要比小孩晚睡而比小孩早起
我要半夜起床喂奶
我还是要忙一切家事
我要放弃事业
我伸手要钱要看丈夫脸色
丈夫出门享乐而我得在家带小孩
甚至于走样的身材是丈夫外遇的藉口
这种种一切就是我的贡献！你不过是享受完之后，放一点精子在我肚子，然后大睡，奇怪这种情况，凭什么小孩要跟着你姓？！他的血他的肉，他的一切都是我给的，你不过只给他一丁点儿，有什么资格跟我争？]
这场架吵完了，我永远记得那丈夫极力想争辩，欲一点话都说不出来。想一想，好像事实真是如此。男人啊！以后真的要对自己的老婆好一点喔！
至于女人嘛！好好把这篇记下来吧！会很好用唷！
至于男人嘛！好好善待女人，否则你就有罪受！
以这篇故事做结论，女人真的好苦啊！！ 一切付出只为了家庭, 但不一定有好结果。我曾经与丈夫讨论这话题，我说男人比女人好。小时候有母亲照顾，大了有女朋友照顾，结婚了有妻子照顾，你说当男人多好啊！还有不用为了每个月的月经来不来而烦，怕怀孕了乱吃药会伤害肚里的孩子。女人需要付很多责任，孩子不听话全怪在家的妈妈怎样教。家里很乱，不得空收拾，也怪妈妈，全不想想也不了不起妈妈在家到底忙什么？菜煮得不好吃，怪妈妈为什么不去学烹饪，也不想想妻子为什么身水身汗煮一顿饭为了有点家庭温暖嘛！你们说女人可怜吗？
丈夫说女人容易找工做，做文员，会计，秘书等等全请女的，好像男的不会做。说什么男人最好做那些有出头的工，而不是做这些文职的工。我说男的只会找钱回来，家里的东西全不理了。先今社会，女人也有帮忙家用啊！为什么男人不在家帮忙妻子做家务呢？好像我的家婆说女人怎样一定会吃亏的，跟男人吵架，不理谁对谁错都要女的先认错，这是什么道理呀？我说这会越来越宠坏男人了！所以男人就会有大男人主义出来，说什么男人这不可以做那不是男人该做的！哼！女人才伟大呢！
男女吵架实战宝典范 (女生版)
那晚 , 我认识的一对年轻夫妇中的太太哭着来电 ：［你快来！我恨他！我要和他离婚！］
快速赶到他们家，这会儿还正吵的凶呢！
男说 ：［她很无聊，我上班好累，她说晚上要去散步，我说改天，改天换，她就又哭又闹，真是讨厌！］
女说：［你才讨厌，我在家作牛作马为这个家打扫，为你做饭为你生孩子，为你们臭男人当发泄兽欲的工具怎么，只要求散个步你就会累死啦！？］
男说：［喂！生小孩是两人的事又不是我一人的事，妳累难道我不累？我发泄难道妳没享受？］
女说：［哼！早知道生了小孩你不管我根本就不生，我们女人为何辛苦生下孩子，就一定要负责孩子的一切，又不能出去工作。］
男说：［喂！生孩子又不是妳一人能办到，没有我妳生个屁。］
女说：［哼！你们男人有何贡献？享受女人肉体的是你，发泄的也是你，你贡献了什么？］
男说：［哼！没有我的贡献精子你生什么！？］
再来下面的话让人难忘!!
女说：［哈哈！ 贡献精子你，享受完了，你射精了，你贡献了，好那看看我们女人的贡献：
我怀孕要忍耐呕吐
我要小心饮食
我连生病都不敢吃药
我要为肚里孩子注意一切
我怀孕不便于行
我不再能远行郊游
我坐车都不方便
我要穿上大肚装
我不能放心行房
我要担心肚里孩子是否健康
我要定时去医院产检
我怀孕要破坏身材
我要烦恼妊娠纹的出现
生产后要努力恢复身材使丈夫不嫌弃
我要忍受阵痛
我也许须要剖腹生产
我也许会有产后忧郁症
我要带初生婴儿
我因喂奶而胸部下垂
我要照顾小孩生活起居
我要比小孩晚睡而比小孩早起
我要半夜起床喂奶
我还是要忙一切家事
我要放弃事业
我伸手要钱要看丈夫脸色
丈夫出门享乐而我得在家带小孩
甚至于走样的身材是丈夫外遇的藉口
这种种一切就是我的贡献！你不过是享受完之后，放一点精子在我肚子，然后大睡，奇怪这种情况，凭什么小孩要跟着你姓？！他的血他的肉，他的一切都是我给的，你不过只给他一丁点儿，有什么资格跟我争？]
这场架吵完了，我永远记得那丈夫极力想争辩，欲一点话都说不出来。想一想，好像事实真是如此。男人啊！以后真的要对自己的老婆好一点喔！
至于女人嘛！好好把这篇记下来吧！会很好用唷！
至于男人嘛！好好善待女人，否则你就有罪受！
以这篇故事做结论，女人真的好苦啊！！ 一切付出只为了家庭, 但不一定有好结果。我曾经与丈夫讨论这话题，我说男人比女人好。小时候有母亲照顾，大了有女朋友照顾，结婚了有妻子照顾，你说当男人多好啊！还有不用为了每个月的月经来不来而烦，怕怀孕了乱吃药会伤害肚里的孩子。女人需要付很多责任，孩子不听话全怪在家的妈妈怎样教。家里很乱，不得空收拾，也怪妈妈，全不想想也不了不起妈妈在家到底忙什么？菜煮得不好吃，怪妈妈为什么不去学烹饪，也不想想妻子为什么身水身汗煮一顿饭为了有点家庭温暖嘛！你们说女人可怜吗？
丈夫说女人容易找工做，做文员，会计，秘书等等全请女的，好像男的不会做。说什么男人最好做那些有出头的工，而不是做这些文职的工。我说男的只会找钱回来，家里的东西全不理了。先今社会，女人也有帮忙家用啊！为什么男人不在家帮忙妻子做家务呢？好像我的家婆说女人怎样一定会吃亏的，跟男人吵架，不理谁对谁错都要女的先认错，这是什么道理呀？我说这会越来越宠坏男人了！所以男人就会有大男人主义出来，说什么男人这不可以做那不是男人该做的！哼！女人才伟大呢！
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