Routine check

I was tagged by shiaulinto do this interesting MEME. Really scratch my head to do this..haha..but nvm I still can think what to blog.

Before got 1st son

I and 1+2dad can travel when we free, go shopping, watch movie and go mamaking also no problem to us. Both of us can buy what ever we like, do what ever we like to do. We just told MIL (mother in law) where we go and what time will back, that’s all.

After got 1st son

I’m SAHM fulltime attend to my son, IL (in law) very scare him fall off or cry so need 24 hours to stare on him..hehe no need do house work and no need cook too. All the meals are prepared by my MIL include my son meal. Both of us still can travel together with my son, we still can go for movie and mamaking. But when we buy things need to think twice, mostly is buy things to my son.

Before got 2nd twins

When I pregnant the twins, my son just past age 1. So, I just take care of my son and MIL still helps me to take care of my son. She feed him and does the entire house work (she still need to work). Both of us still can travel (early stage pregnant) and go for movie, shopping and mamaking.

After twins came out

We busy with the twins and my son, both of us no time to go out cause no ppl can help us look after the 3 kids (MIL cant take care all of them by herself). When the twins still baby, we just can go shopping (cause that time still got maid) and sometime go mamak need to bring along my son. After the maid gone home, the gals about 1 yr 4 months we start cut off the mamaking. Less travel, no more movie for us and just go window shopping. After them about 1 yr 6 months, we start back our mamaking and sometime they go overnight at outstation (I think just twice only).
Now the gals start fight for toys and food, sometime mommy too. Sometime they all want mommy carry, instead of all fight for carry so I just stand and tell them I wont carry anyone and all go sit down on the sofa. One whole day just buzy with them about the toys, food, accompany them watch TV show and play with them. I still no need cook cause MIL scare of look after them, she said better work than take care children.

P/s : 1+2dad just reformat both pc so some of the program still not install yet, the trip to Sunway Lagoon need to post it later with the photos.

Tomorrow go swimming

Wow..tomorrow we go Sunway Lagoon swimming, i think my kids are the most happier in the family espicially my son. This few month he no swimming lesson at nursery cause their swimming pool got problem, he very sad about this.

1+2dad decided to bring all of us go swimming tommorow, actually we plan about 1 week ago. My kids sure very happy and will blog about it this weekend if i'm free together with the photos too. Be patian and wait for me :P

Kepong Blogger's Gathering

Last Saturday we been to Kepong Blogger's Gathering at Milwaukee Steak Corner, it was fun and happy. Happy cause can meet so many blogger and fun cause we celebrate Twinsmom birthday there.

Any detail can see at other blogger’s site like :
egghead , Jason , Twinsmon , willwolf ,zara’s mama and suzette .

Special thankz to Jason, you feed about half bowl of salad to Carrie..haha..next time got chance I spend you back 1 bowl of salad too.(scare to said spend you 1 meal cause egghead said you can eat so much then I can pok gai {bankrupt} liao *joking nia, dun mad pls*).

My son had make a friend with willwolf son, they had a nice chat. I first time saw him so polite with other ppl, sorry Jason my son too active you got to find chance to talk and play with him next time.

For other blogger, I had no time to chat and say hi with them cause very buzy with my gals. Need to feed them and myself, then later need to follow them here and there.

Which part of baby you like the most??

I like baby face, they look very cute when the baby fat fat.. seem like to pinch the face. Like my son now he is 3 years old I still like to kiss his face very hard..haha..sometime he pushes me away.

The other part is hand and leg. Did you notice that baby leg likes the part of lotus so cute and like to bit it?

Last time I saw a ‘siao’ lady pinch a baby face till red color, but the poor baby seems like it so much..hehe..maybe that baby oledi get used to it.

I like to look at my gals face cause they are very small and cute. One of my friend she every time visit me sure said my gals face so so so small, she 1st time saw baby face so small like my gals.

Sometime I look at other baby that smaller then my gals (which sleep facing the ceiling), they seem bigger then them cause they face so big. (my gals sleep tummy facing the bed, so they head like ‘American football’..haha.)

How about you??

What he learn at nursery??

I think so many ppl will ask what 3 years old kids learn at nursery, and why let them start school so early?? This topic I also think of so many times and I also decided to let my kids start about 4 years old but things will change in any time.

My mother in law(MIL) also decided let the kids start later cause she though kids start so early they will get bored and when the time come they will sure know it, but lately cause my son now at nursery she also change her mine..hehe. She also found out my son learn a lot things at nursery.

This week he learns ‘days in a week’ in English and Malay. He counts the days and tells me which day he got school and which day he dun. Now he know to hold the pencil in proper way which I dun have time to teach him. He learns about character building like say ‘no’ to stranger, keep the toys, let share with others, listen to parents and etc (but he never follow *sign* ).

I like him to sing Malay song cause he pronouns the words so cute. When he sing the 'Bangun Pagi’ he can lalala the song some more. Teacher also teach them count one till ten but this he also learn at home and shape, color etc. They also learned some pasting, coloring and art too. About the reading book they had, my son now learned till the book 4. He can recognize some words like ‘the’, ‘like’, ‘me’, ‘I’, ‘play’, ‘am’, etc.

About Carol and Carrie, they learn it at home follow the Astro channel 35 (NHK) every weekday at 12.05pm. It got 15min English program, this few day learned ‘fast’ and ‘slow’. They follow the ppl in the show pronouns the words. B4 that they oledi learned ‘up’ ‘down’,’on’ ‘off’,’big’ ‘small’,’open’ ‘close’,’red’ ‘blue’ and some vegetable. They also will used the word they had learned like when I bring them to toilet, they need the light on they will point the light and say ‘on’. Others like they want open the bottle or cover, they will call me to ‘open’.

Baby boy was here

This morning about 7am plus my youngest sister give birth a 2.9kgs baby boy. This was her second baby and her elder daughter was 2 years old now.

Her due was actually on 2nd October so late about 3 days. She so worry about her baby and talk to him sometime will ask him why dunwan come out to this world..hehe. She start contraction at 1am and start push her baby at 7am plus, just 10min the baby was came out and no need to cut anything. All of us said she so lucky and the baby was so fast come out.

Congratulation to her!!!

18SX

One nite, I change my son b4 he go sleep and we usually have some talk while I changing him.

1+2mom : boy boy why you got ku ku jai (bird) and you’re mei mei dun have? *just wandering he know or not and what he will answer me* *bad mommy*
boy boy: got ..mei mei not yet grow big big.

1+2mom : mei mei where got ku ku jai?? Mei mei is gal dun have ku ku jai
Boy boy : got.. mei mei next time grow big big got ku ku jai like boy boy grow big big got.

1+2mom : hehe.
Boy boy : *suddenly he said* like gu gu (sister in law) got hair there next time boy boy grow big big also got hair. (they got take bath together like with me)

1+2mom : *ROFL* how you know?? Who teach you??
Boy boy : yes got na. *give me other answer*

Little Ladies

Wow such a long holidays ..hehe. I come back liao.

Update some of my twin’s photos.





Got one day my upstairs bathroom basin drop off luckily after my kid’s bath it drop. We all need to bath at downstairs, and I’m very lazy to bring all the stuff to down stair so I just cover them with towel and bring them up. Izzit so cute they with this kind look???





Haha they look very happy with this rite. “Daddy is a cow for us to rite..yippy”




Thankz the ‘walls’ got this type of mini ice-cream so my kids wont eat too much.

Temporary stop blogging

To all blogger,

I'll temporary stop blogging till i settle my family problem, thankz for all your support.

From,
1+2mom

Stubborn son

Every morning, I want to wake my son up to school.

1+2mom : boy, wake up lor..want to go school lor.
Boy : *still sleeping*

1+2mom : *shake him* boy, boy.
Boy : *open eyes and look at me then close back*

1+2mom : *shake him again* boy boy, you want drink nen nen??
Boy : yes. *finally he wake up and have his milk*

After finish his milk, want to change his school uniform and I must pursuit him again.

1+2mom : boy come change your uniform go school lor, now very late.
Boy : dunwan, I dunwan go school.

1+2mom : your teacher and friends all wait you at school.
Boy : dunwan. *I call MIL (Mother In Law) to help*

MIL : come mar mar change for you. (talk in mandarin)
Boy : *go change his uniform*

In the afternoon, my son back from school.

1+2mom : boy come eat mum mum (lunch).
Boy : *run here and there*

1+2mom : boy boy, come eat mum mum.
Boy : *still pretend didn’t hear him*

1+2mom : boy boy *using louder voice*
Boy : *come and sit down eat his lunch*

After lunch, need him to take bath.

1+2mom : boy boy go take bath, you so dirty.
Boy : I dunwan take bath.

1+2mom : boy boy dun let mummy said so many time to call you take bath.
Boy : I dunwan take bath *run away*

1+2mom : *shout to him* boy boy
Boy : *run to MIL* mar mar I dunwan take bath.

MIL : mar mar take bath with you.
Boy: I want mar mar, I dunwan take bath. I want change shirt, my leg pain pain..i dunwan take bath.

MIL : boy boy very dirty, go take bath.
Boy : mar mar take bath with me.

Till the napping time, I again and again want to pursuit him to go sleep.

1+2mom : boy boy time to sleep.
Boy : I dunwan to sleep.

1+2mom : boy boy come lar, go sleep. After you wake up daddy come back ask daddy bring you go park.
Boy : *follow me go bedroom*

Same as dinner time, evening bath and nite time go sleep. I must pursuit and sometime need to take out the cane (he not even scare the cane *roll eyes*) to let him done the daily routine.

He is very stubborn, like on Friday he back from school. That day because of the weather very hot my FIL (Father In Law) decided to fetch him home, so he with MIL when to school to fetch him and I stay at home with the girls. Few min. later I heard he came back and call for me.

Boy : mummy, why you didn’t come to school?
1+2mom : yeh yeh (grandfather = FIL) and mar mar (grandmother = MIL) go school fetch you mar.

Boy : I dunwan mar mar and yeh yeh.. I want mummy go school fetch boy boy.. Mummy brings boy boy go school. *with his crying voice* (he want me bring him go school again and bring him back)
1+2mom : dunwanlar.. your friend and teacher they all gone home, no ppl at school now.

Boy : I want mommy go school.
1+2mom : *headache* mommy bring you go buy mum mum (lunch) *try to turn his point*

Boy : I dunwan.
1+2mom : *hehe..oledi reach his favorite show* wah..you see the ABC start already.

Boy : *turn his head to the TV*
1+2mom : *luckily the show start if not dunno when can settle down him*

How to have twins?

About this title, twinsmom and angeline blog about it and I
also 1 of the twins mom so let me talk about my experience.

Being a mother of twins, the most common and often asked question
is:
“Was because you or your husband family has twins in the history?” (twinsmom i copy you..hehe)

Yes. 1+2dad’s family got history. His aunties are a pair of twins. B4 I married I told 1+2dad hope we can get a pair of twins which are 1 gal
and 1 boy so I can close shop early..hehe. He said not so easy lar.

I married at age 23 years old and hope to get a baby next year which
was a dragon year baby so can same as us (me and 1+2dad are
same age), but my dream wont come true.

We wait about 1 year plus still dun have any baby and waist a lot of pregnancy test tube. Later we decided to see doctor and this doctor is recommended by 1+2dad ex-boss wife (she cant pregnant about
10 years and see this doctor get pregnant in about 1 year).We see this doctor about half a year than I get pregnant, but not twins.

The second pregnancy is abit surprise cause we just let it be. I wish I
finish my job b4 age 30 years old so we can have baby fast and I didn’t think i can get twins in the 2nd pregnancy cause my son and the twins just 1 year gap. When the time we know is twins and need to arrange a maid to help us. I cant handle 1 toddler (that time he just 18 months) and a pair of twins baby in the same time.

June 2003 (week 10)
Should be go back check up in 4 weeks time but my morning sick very bad so go back in the 3rd week. Doctor scan and let us know it was a twins and cause me very bad morning sick. I had to hang drip at the clinic and 1+2dad spoilt his all arrangement when he know I get a pair of twins. (he decided to order a new car, luckily didn’t can save the money for the gals)

December 2003 (week 32)
I admit to hospital about 5 days because my stomach sometime abit hard and discharge some brownish. I celebrate my charismas at hospital that year. Go home about 1 week admit to hospital again.

Jan 2004(week 35)
This time baby need to come out early, cause the water in the water beg suddenly increase so much and scare the baby will drink the water. Doctor decided to do c-sec 2 days later. (cause of ‘T’ too needs to do c-sec).

1.08pm Carol reach the world with 1.48 kgs
1.09pm Carrie follow then with 1.75kgs

These 2 gals want to come out early to get ‘ang paw’ (my due is during Chinese New Year). I though I will lose Carrie because her lung not working properly so she need the ventilator to help her breath. Luckily she ok in the 3rd day, no need the ventilator but she got jaunties (for normal baby the level is ok but for premature baby she need to keep under the light).

I go see them at the 4th day, I nearly want to cry when I saw them. 1+2dad told me the 1st two day the gals body all with tube lagi kelian, he cant stay there too long cause he also want to cry. 1+2dad dint told me anything about the gal’s condition just let me know the twin I in the incubator and the twin II with ventilator and abit dangerous. He didn’t let me know how dangerous she and I are just c-sec think of maybe will lost one of them. (I’m do idiot, should think of the good side mar)

Now saw them very healthy, I’m so lucky still got 2 of them with me.




left : Carol with 1.48kgs and height 40cm
right : Carrie with 1.75kgs and height 47cm






left : Carrie with 8.8kgs
right : Carol with 8.6kgs
*They always got about 200g difference*

Happy smile

This video clip is Carol & Carrie when they 6 months plus play with 1+2dad, they smile happily.

I like they laugh together, very cute.

Swimming

This few days are very hot, so I let them play some water in front of the house. They very enjoy till dunwan come out from the pool.

This pool is 5 ft long but I got one 4 ft dunno last time they finish swimming I oledi put where. Luckily I got 1 extra if not they sure make so much noise cause I oledi promise them if they didn’t naughty I will let them play water.

These are some of the photos I took when they play water.




They like to play water.




Carter learns swimming at school so he try to show me.




Can you guess who is who?? Sometime when they wet i also mix them up.




This pool is big enough for 3 of them to play.

Genting trip

On Tuesday we had been to Genting for 2 days 1 night, just our family. Yes!! First time our family trip to outstation without friends and maid, just family member ~ 5 of us.

We booking the hotel on Monday, last minute we decide to go Genting. The next day, after my son school over and we had our lunch then right away to the Genting.

We reach there about 3 pm because of they slept in the car, so we go to First World Hotel for a walk. My girls half way walk they fall asleep cause they very excited when reach hotel dunwan continue their nap.

They slept in the stroller and my son continues his ‘jungle tracking’ till about 6pm the girls wakeup and we had our dinner at restaurant there.

After the dinner, we continue our walk to Genting indoor theme park at Genting hotel. The kids had their fun at there, my son scare play the jungle car ride by himself and need Carrie to accompany him. About Carol, I scare she will fall off if she rides her own so just let her play the putting coins airplane. They had a lot of fun there.

About 9pm, we back to hotel have a rest and change the kids. I and 1+2dad watch TV and the kids still play by themselves. About 10pm, I make milk let them sleep. My son very tired, after his milk he fall asleep very fast, but the girls still rolling here and there. I think about 10.30pm their turn fall asleep.

The next day morning about 8 am we all wakeup except my son, he still sleeping. He weak up about 9pm and I clean them go down for our buffet breakfast. This breakfast include in our package and 2 tickets for Outdoor Theme Park for total of RM 118.80 (hotel room too) very the cheap.

After the breakfast we go to Outdoor Theme Park had some fun b4 go back home. About 1.30pm we on our way home to Petaling Jaya and say bye bye to Genting.




Carter ride moto very ‘yau yeng’ ler.




They like to play this type of coins toys.




Carol with the putting coins airplane.




Carter scare it move so just take photo.




They tired till slept very kelian to share in one stroller.




Carter scare and play with Carrie.




Carol with dinosaur.




Carter with his ‘leng chai’ look, this day he dun like to take photo.




Carol play with 1+2dad while we eating McD.




Carrie had her yummy lunch.

Here is some video clip that Carter and Carrie ride the car.

Bloggers gathering

Yesterday lilian meet us in KLCC food court at 4 pm, I though cant join them cause that time is my kids nap time. They wakeup early about 3.30pm so I ask 1+2dad can fetch us to join the gathering or not, I think we can make it b4 6pm.

I told 1+2dad after the gathering we can bring the kids go the nearby park play. He said if want quick quick pack up and go cause scare traffic jam. On the way to KLCC, I sms Milly cause I scare when I reach there all of them gone liao. She reply me said they will wait us, thankz a lot milly.

When we reach there, I look around the food court and saw lilian hair, her hair style very easy to recognize. We just chat a while and lilian need to go liao, she very rush and maybe I late cant talk too much. Her son’s Matthew so cute, not like my son very shy asked his daddy carry dunwan come down.

After that, Milly and kiasi follow us to the park and they just stay a while and need to go home (I know they very tired cause after school right away come to meet the blogger).

The kids play till about 7pm we went home, but reach home about 8pm liao cause stuck in the traffic jam about 1 hour. The girls had their dinner in the car (drink milk), when reach home cant take anymore rice.

The kids slept about 10.15pm, very fast they fall asleep maybe they play till very tired liao.

Nice to meet Lockee. Other than that I had no time to talk to them, and from MMB Ros nice to meet you too.

Toilet train

I had started the girls for their toilet train when they were 18 months old. Every time b4 they bath when I take off their cloth I just call them go inside the toilet pee.

Sometime they bath with their kor kor, so they know the kor kor ‘style’ pee. Yes, they were standing when they pee. I just want them know if they want to pee need to go inside the toilet and I dunwan to force them pee in the proper way.

Later about 1 week, they know b4 bath they need to go in the toilet to pee. It was successful for the 1st step. Then I teach them the proper way the girls pee.

In the 1st place, they cant do that so continue standing. Few days later, they know what I mean to squat down when want to pee. So now every time I bring them to toilet, Carrie will squat down to pee without I telling her but Carol I must keep remind her to squat down to pee.

I know them still young to start toilet train but I just let them know when pee should go in the toilet. Sometime I forgot to bring them to toilet, they still pee in the nappy.

About the poo..hehe..very lazy mommy, still let them do in the nappy or diaper. Will start that soon, cause I know must let them know to poo in the potty or toilet bowl first then I can let them start wear nice nice pant. If not, they will poo every way when wear the pants *cause I try that b4, need to clean the floor again and again*

Hope the toilet train successful soon, cause my son I start train him when he was 6 months old *cause that time very free just takecare 1 baby, so can do many things* and totally he managed to tell me he want to go toilet when he is about 2 years old. I claver liao, start late then can success soon..muahaha.

Carrie talk

One afternoon, Carrie walk walk toward me..

Carrie : drin..drin..drin..(drink) *holding an empty bottle*
1+2mom : oh!! No more water, mommy fills the water for you. *take the bottle and fill for her*

After refill the water, I gave back to her.

Carrie : ta..dum
1+2mom : huh??? What you want??

Carrie : ta..dum *said again*
1+2mom : What is tadum?? Where izzit?? *I though is lizard*

Carrie : ta..dum *said again facing me with her lovely smile*
1+2mom : *just realize* oh…is thank you!!! You are welcome.

This day, Carol & Carrie like to follow what we said. Some they able to follow but some dunno what they say. They know to said star, ice, meow (cat), wow wow (dog), morning, bear, bird, eye and many more.

Family Day photos

Below are some of the Family Day photos took on last Saturday.




Too many ppl till no place to eat, so we have our lunch beside the road.




Carrie buzy drink her orange juice,so just 3 of us facing the camera.




Carol & Carrie like to drink those drink so much.




Carol & Carrie : got so many drink..mmmmmmm..so yummy.




Carter : oiii..face the camera, what so intresting there??




Carrie so cute when holding the cup, she wont let me take away the drink.

ADDITIONAL :



My son told me this is a horse, what would you think??? (he arrange it)

Funny conversation

The day b4 yesterday my son had conversation with my SIL while he eating ice-cream, they speck in Mandarin but I translate to English.

SIL : boy boy gu gu want eat ice-cream wor.
Carter : gu gu dunwan eat ice-cream. (eating the ice-cream)

SIL : gu gu hungry wor.
Carter : gu gu go buy ice-cream lar. (still eating ice-cream)

SIL : gu gu no money to buy ice-cream.
Carter : gu gu afterward got money to buy ice-cream. (look so yummy!!!)

SIL : gu gu where got money to buy ice-cream??
Carter : mar mar (MIL) got money, gu gu go ask mar mar buy lar. (happy eating ice-cream)

Another conversation with his mei mei, while my MIL just bring him out to buy something last nite.

MIL : mei mei cant go with mar mar, mei mei still small. (Carol & Carrie with their tear on their face)
Carter : mei mei dun go, tomorrow I bring you go gong gong house ar.

Carol & Carrie stop crying liao just because they heard their kor kor will bring them to gong gong house tomorrow..hehe..very funny.

Family & Charity Day

My son school got Family & Charity Day on this Saturday (2nd July 2005), 1+2dad oledi take leave bring us to join that family day. Yeah!!!

We decided to bring all of them to go, so wish we have lot of fun there. We got the schedule of that day got so many food and game, sound so interesting.

It using coupons matted so need to buy coupons, I ask the teacher they said got sell on that day too. (need to purchased at any Q-dees centre) I think it open to public, can bring along the kids to enjoy if you want.

Date : 2nd July 2005
Time : 9 am – 5 pm
Venue : Taman Keluarga, Bukit Jalil

All the KL Q-dees branches will join together at that day, I think maybe that fun fair quite big. Will take some photos and put in the blog after we came back from that Family Day.

We will go on the morning maybe about 10am cause the kids need nap at the afternoon so 1+2dad need to take leave so we can go on the morning (such a waist cause just half day work but need to take 1 day leave, but no choice).

Who want to go maybe we can meet there :P

p/s : can meet, greet and capture some exciting moments with mascot-captain Q-dees, Cloony the Clown, and many more.